#rufflecat

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I didn't say your original comment was unjustified, nor did I invalidate your response to it: ie I don't think she's above reproach. Instead I'm pointing out where YOU might need reproach, which you tagged as "whining". Regardless, I'll stop messaging you about it, have a nice night/day whatever it is depending on your time zone

B/c she was whining about being "bullied" & "bashed", which if you think of all the people who have actually been bashed & bullied to the point of losing their confidence, their ability to leave their owns, their will to live another day...her complaining b/c she got busted is pretty whiny.

Take care. Bai bai.

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why cant you just drop this whole thing, its obvious you just want attention

Then stop giving it to me. Everyone of you stop coming into my inbox or reblogging to challenge me. Send your condolences that the big bad said something to rufflecat. I won't see it or reply to it & guess what? The. Whole. Thing. Dies.

Not a difficult concept.

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Funny , Rufflecat isn't my fav. And I don't even follow her. I follow you. Just Drop It. Go on about's your nights. I'm just sick of the Rufflecat topic.

Then why are you in my inbox about it again?

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The fever brain must be getting to me, but I just cannot seem to restrain myself. Why is it necessary to continue to harass the rufflecat girl? So she said something ignorant and stereotypical. You do that, as do I. But you're continuing a vicious cycle here, and I really did not need my dash clogged up with it, and neither of you need the stress of these shenanigans. It's not necessary to stereotype her as well, or continue to make fun of her and her possibly/probably rather immature followers.

The fever has gotten to you.

I'm not harassing her. Pretty sure I'm answering my own posts & asks. I think it's more telling & interesting how a bunch of people who know she's been ignorant & wrong are still offended that someone actually, politely, told her that.

Thanks for the faux-concern, but if you have a fever, you should rest & get fluids.

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Nobody said she's above reproach, she saw your comment, realized her mistake, admitted she was wrong and got rid of the offensive comment. That's maturely accepting criticism, and that means you can leave her alone now.

Everyone seems to think she's above reproach, otherwise y'all wouldn't be in my inbox whining. Hint: Send this to her inbox, I won't see it & I won't care.

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Rufflecat was simply saying that she doesn't like plus sized girls because she's more phsyically active than they are. It's not rude, I have the same preference and neither of us have anything against plus girls! You don't have to be so bitter about it, she wasn't being rude.

& she's not actually able, nor are you, to quantify/qualify what every plus sized girl is physically capable of. Stereotyping is bs & if she'd made the comment about another group based on skin, ability, class? There wouldn't be so many people trying to convince me I'm wrong.

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I just think you should think before you do some of the things you do on here, and you should let things go. You can take my advice or completely disregard this either way it won't bother me. Gooday.

I don't understand why you believe me calling someone out who did something you & they admit is wrong is something I need to reflect on? I am disregarding your advice but I hope you consider why you think this person who was wrong is somehow above reproach.

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Ok I'm not even going to make this anonymous because I could care less. Idgaf if it happened days ago it just came up for me to see now and I feel the need to, not defend rufflecat like "the followers that worship her", but as myself who saw something wrong in what you did. Nor am I trying to yell or argue I'm just simply stating you handled her mistake the wrong way. Yes she made a mistake but you did not have to comment about it.

Yes, I did.

It is a ridiculous stereotype & it is hurtful. To continue telling people they can't do something b/c of their body type? A number on a scale? That is the reason I said something. B/c more than one type of person sees those posts. & honestly, the reason I said something to her was b/c I had been following her for some time & found her to generally be a good person.

She said something harmful though, & I brought it up. I didn't attack her. I didn't say she was a horrible creature/demon b/c of it. I said twice that anyone who did what she expected which would be to get mad at her for not wanting to date plus sized women/girls, I said I hope they burn. B/c that would be wrong.

Mistakes are only corrected when someone actually CORRECTS THEM. Why is rufflecat above someone saying something to her? The number of followers? What? I posted everything for context. No one has come into her inbox to attack her. I didn't send a bunch of people to abuse someone else b/c I disagreed w/ their tumblr fave, now did I? If you know what she said was wrong, why would you just let it slide? If anyone cares about her, you'd want her to be a better person. Those are the kinds of friends I have by my side. People who will call me on my BS & make me re-examine & grow every day. We should all be so lucky as to have the amazing people I know in life/follow on Tumblr b/c they would never allow me to cut down an entire section of people based on a stereotype. & if I do? You can bet, I'm gonna hear it.

I'm glad you came off anon, I can take you more seriously & address you like a person. That's not a courtesy that's been paid to me. Thank you.