hi guys! i just wanted to address some things that i've noticed are increasing in my ask box:
1. it's not kind to demand a longer version of something. i spend a lot of time picking and prodding over what i write, and as of right now, i don't feel like i'm gonna be writing anything over 1-2k words. if i've already posted about a topic, please don't ask for a longer version. that's very rude to me and what i've already posted. if i had more to say, i would've said it.
2. 'need'. you don't need anything from me, you want stuff from me. i find it very rude and almost dehumanizing to open my ask box and find demands like that. i don't mind being asked to write something, but please be kind with your requests!
3. and finally, as a general reminder, i'm only human. i can only do so much. having a tumblr blog and being able to write and be appreciated is a gift, but it's also not something my life revolves around. i have other responsibilities and things to do. please remember this!
i love you guys! just wanted to set some boundaries and touch on some things :)
please read through my guidelines if you're planning to stay a while on my blog! this is not only for my comfort, but yours as well!
꒰ GENERAL ꒱
DO NOT INTERACT if you are a minor, an asshole, and fall under the usual dni criteria. you will be blocked if you have no age indicators anywhere on your profile
i post about both nsfw and dark content. if you are averse to seeing the topics listed below, i would highly recommend for you to be on your way!
tagged with #cw [topic]: incest. stepcest. pseudocest. yandere. noncon. dubcon. monsterfucking. omegaverse. age gap. pregnancy. sa. abuse.
this is also a selfship-centric space. i heavily talk about both my selfships (i am sharing with all of them!) and others' selfships, and would like to maintain a kind, respectful space for it!
I DO NOT TAKE REQUESTS. you are free to send ideas and thirsts, but any form of requesting will result in an instant block.
asking for updates, part twos, and anything similar without even commenting about the fic first will also get you blocked on sight.
i write fem/gn reader inserts and the occasional ship fic (<- usually posted onto my ao3 and not here on tumblr)
i highly advocate supporting fellow writers! if you ever want to have any of your work circulated around, just send an ask linking your fic, and i'll queue it in my reblogs!
꒰ INTERACTIONS ꒱
my anon asks are disabled for my own comfort.
i'm generally an interactive person, but please do not place any expectations on me (or anyone for the matter) when it comes to these things! i will get to your asks and posts when i have the energy, pinky swear!
i hardblock to break mutuals and encourage you to do the same if you no longer wish to see me in your space! there will be no hard feelings or questions asked.
just play nice and we're all good! the above is usually a very extreme course of action for me, and i would only do so if: you constantly post about discourse, vaguepost, and are rude to me or others in general.
if you have blocked me first, i usually just block back to minimize any chances of you seeing me in your space!
꒰ TAGS I USE ꒱
in case you need to curate your dash:
#kai.fm : answered asks
#kai.docx : everyday yappathon
#disc: [insert title] : talk abt specific fics
#cryoculus : tracking tag for my writing
#🤍 — self ships : personal yumeposting
#💘 — loveoculus : others' yumeposting
#❄️ — kai's recs : writing i love
#💌 — lovemail : gifts for friends
non-hoyoverse interest tags i may spam: #f1 tag #kaigun #bluelockulus #pokeposting #pw tag
I SHOT YOU WITH MY WATER GUN IF YOU SUPPORT: ai, misogyny, bullying, racism, homophobia, transphobia, ableism, zionism, trump, incest, pedophilia, rape & SA, purity culture
HOW TO AVOID WATER DAMAGE:
⭑ minors dni
⭑ dont ask for part 2 unless it is explicitly stated in the author’s note that there will be one.
⭑ be respectful to others, including myself. if u dont fw me or my writing, block me✌️😍
⭑ all works belong to me. do not copy, repost, translate, or feed my works to ai.
(U guys wanna join?: @ghostkid0000 @shanmthebrave @pikkissis)
(Add your oc, sona or fav character! Remember to check my account for reblogs so that each character is in order and is not left out! And feel free to tag!)
♡ just a quick heads-up for everyone: moving forward, whether you’re on anon or not, please refrain from using my inbox to ask about drama, issues, or whether “enhablr is problematic.” yes, i’m aware of the discourse. yes, i’ve seen it with my own eyes. but this blog is my safe space—it’s a space where i come to write, interact with people who enjoy the same things, and simply have fun. i’m not here to entertain negativity or be the spokesperson for what’s right or wrong on this app. if i ever feel the need to speak on something, i will. until then, let’s all just be respectful and focus on the good things. :)
This is just my fun little hobby, so I’m only going to write what genuinely tickles me. If I’m dreading an idea or forcing myself to crank something out, it’s not going to be fun for either of us—and trust me, you’ll be able to tell in the writing. If I’m not feeling a request, I’ll just quietly pass on it. Or, if I love your idea and just don’t think I can do it, I’ll just say that so you can find someone who can <3
2. Why I Might Pass on Your Request
Too vague: Something like “can I get some fluff for ____?” gives me almost nothing to work off. Fluff about what? A scenario? A vibe? A dynamic? An inspo picture?
Overly specific: On the other end of the spectrum, if your request is basically a 3-page outline of exactly what should happen and what every line of dialogue should be, I don’t have any room to add my own spin. I am happy to take into account vibes or world building ideas until the cows come home. But if it’s something like, “___ x reader where they’re at her grandparents house and she’s a librarian so they met at the library and they’re watching tv and eating popcorn and they put their hand on her leg and—” you get the point.
I don’t know the character or fandom you’re asking for (it happens a lot but feel more than welcome to ask if I know!)
Or simply… I’m just not feeling it. (It’s never personal!)
3. How to Get a “Yes” from Me
Be specific but chill—give me a vibe, dynamic, or fun moment to build on, like: “Could you write something where ___ is really protective and it turns into something really soft?”
Toss in little details or aesthetics to get me inspired!! I love inspo pics or dialogue ideas or any little inspo bit!!!
4. A Quick Note on Readers & Style
I write female readers only (I’m a girl and that’s what I know best).
I live for AUs of all shapes and sizes, feel free to send me any ideas you have for one!! Some notable ones I’ve done are: fireman!Ben, mechanic!Dean, and football coach!ben. Sone of my favorite reader characters have been: handler!reader x soldier boy, nurse!reader x soldier boy, and pr wife!reader x soldier boy.
I’ll always tweak or skip over small details I don’t like rather than scrapping a whole request, so don’t stress about being “perfect.”
5. My “No’s” (for now)
Here’s what I currently don’t write:
Any kind of violent dynamic between characters in a relationship. Toxic is fine, but there will be no parter on partner violence. I also tend to stray from anything that really includes violence towards women outside of the action scene kind of scenario.
This list is always evolving, and I’ll add to it as needed. At the end of the day, if I don’t like a prompt, I simply won’t write it—no hard feelings, no explanations needed.
i do NOT write anything explicit for woojin n louis
don't like. don't read. scroll. block me. idc.
x female readers
possibly contain dark/taboo content in the future
i don't write about scat, vomit, age play, incest, paedophilia, pegging, religious themes. there's prolly more i js can't remember off the top of my head
slow updates (sucks being an adult)
pls send in your thoughts !! i luv yapping away ˃ᴗ˂
