Selfishness
Who makes decision about the selfishness? Who knows the thing we do are selfishness or not? If majority thinks that the thing you do is selfishness that means is it selfishness? Who is the judge here? Because i have problem with the social rules of selfishness! I don't get it... Some of my friends thinks i am selfish. So who's being selfish here? Imagine that five friends playing a game and one of them is better than four of them also they all agree with it from inside but not sharing with their friend. Every statistic we look is says that. So for me the first selfishness is starting here with this. The second one is continuing with the game. That person who is playing better than the rest have to make a decision between two thing. First one is the rest of the team will support him in the game and he will carry the team to the win. If it happens %90 of games will be win for them. Second thing is the person who is playing better than the rest will support their friends because his friends wants to play in another roles. But they are not good at it especially if it comes to carry the team. So they will make team %90 of lose. Also playing carry is enjoyable on the contrary playing support is not. So who's being selfish here? If the quailites of a good team means every person in that team must have the same enjoy. I am being selfish here... but if the quailites of a good team means every person in that team must play the role who is good at it. They are being selfish... But they will never think about with this aspect. That means if i'm right they are being selfish third time. By the way it's just an example... You make the choice!