transmisogynoir is DEEPLY engrained in the trans community. stop pretending otherwise. holy fuck
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transmisogynoir is DEEPLY engrained in the trans community. stop pretending otherwise. holy fuck
(i will not be responding to any comments anymore, y’all are exhausting. i don’t have all the answers, please go through my political tag and check out blogs like @enby-banshee or @i-suggest-transfeminism . this post was made because of a post accusing misandrists of being racist, transphobic, etc. i’ve tagged transandrophobia because i am tired of the misconception that transfeminism = hating transmascs. i am NOT transmasc but socially i do in fact present as such. this was a simple post and i did not expect you guys to start pulling shit out of your asses because you assume that i don’t understand intersectionality. i’ve made any clarifications that i could besides coming up with a new term for you guys cus like. im simply not doing that. figure it out yourselves and popularize a new term that wasn’t popularized by a nazi.)
equating feminism, especially transfeminism as racist, transphobic or particularly anti transmasc or intersex is STUPID. YOU HAVE FALLEN FOR REACTIONARY PROPAGANDA SPREAD BY PEOPLE WHO DO NOT WANT TO ACKNOWLEDGE THEIR OWN PRIVILEGE. implying feminism is anything BUT pro women is misogynistic. if you want to criticize white feminists yeah sure of COURSE. there is historical data to back up that white feminism weaponized racism towards women of color. however, if you aren’t fucking stupid you would be able to realize terfs and racists just use feminism for their own agenda and are not ACTUAL FEMINISTS. criticize white women, not marginalized communities of women who just want to point out the injustices in their own fucking communities.
Misandry is just a red herring designed to take the focus off of men's violence. And that's why I don't care if some low value loser thinks
A few years ago, many of my clients began using gender-neutral terms to refer to pregnancy, periods, and other stereotypically female states
i’m adding this second article to show that i properly vetted my sources because i do not want to accidentally use any sources from terfs.
also like seriously look at why the term misandrist even exists. why men even use it. its because feminism, wanting equality for women, was seen as ANTI MEN. WOMEN WANTING BASIC AUTONOMY WAS SEEN AS HATRED OF MEN. Please let that sink in. PLEASE.
EDITS so you guys stop bringing up irrelevant shit.
the concept of trans women being hypervisible is LAUGHABLE. like seriously i rarely see anything positive when it comes to trans women. i mean legitimately on tiktok when i ever dare to speak up for my sisters, i get 100 million responses about either trans men or straight up transmisogyny . TERFS run RAMPANT in feminist spaces. just telling people to include trans women in their spaces is CONTROVERSIAL.
tmes talk about “go outside and interact with queer people irl!” as if suddenly the same hateful transmisogynistic fucks on tiktok and tumblr aren’t always overcrowding trans and feminist spaces. LIKE FUCK MAN. i dont like sharing my tiktok but ill fucking dox myself at this point just to prove to you dumb fucks that there is no good PR for trans women. they are a subjects of constant debate. meanwhile trans men are always ALWAYS included in feminism.
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im sorry but uh? what the hell are you talking about. what i’ve seen coming from transfeminists is that! trans women experience transmisogyny before they’re even out. which exactly aligns with what you are saying.. im wondering why you think that white trans women are not intelligent enough to understand that race makes trans women of color disadvantaged in a way they have not experienced, but it sure as hell is similar. what a gotcha to white trans women
tumblr so woke we’ve got mras on here 😭 it’s like everyone is so fucking disconnected from the oppression women face simply because they can not interact with intersectionality in good faith. yes men suffer from the patriarchy, they are also who fucking made it. who enforce it, who benefit from it. feminists have grown tired, because guess what? we have done all we can. it’s on men to dismantle this system but they won’t. because even if yes, they experience pain due to it, the rewards out weighs their desire to change anything. when you add race, transness, queerness, intersexuality, etc. into the mix of course things are so much more complicated. but at the end of the day, in our separate communities, men are on top. men of color’s desire to have proximity to whiteness has them use their privilege of simply being born ‘male’ to tear down the women in their community. does that negate the fact they have their own struggles? no. of fucking course not. because at the end of the day white cis men are at top. so no, i do not believe in misandry. just like you will never catch me believing in reverse racism or reverse homophobia. the people at top deserve criticism, and they are not owed grace or compassion or our sentiments being wrapped in a neat bow so we can convince them to not be violent and oppressive to the women who keep this earth running. i have a puerto rican cisgendered bisexual disabled husband. i know the pain he has experienced, and none of it has been because he was a goddamn man. it was because of ableism, homophobia, racism, and parental abuse. men experience “boys don’t cry”, however they are still owed the world, the labor of women, of grace. and yes, it is because of the patriarchy, but it is not systemic. i need you guys to remind yourselves of how we got here. of why we have a patriarchal society. and who exactly, at the end of the day, benefits from it the most. women are not your enemy, they are not your oppressors simply because they are cautious and scared of what you are capable of due to your proximity of masculinity. when men around the world use the patriarchy (and religion as they tend to go hand in hand) as a tool to abuse and manipulate and destroy, yes of course hatred is the natural response.
i have identified has a trans man, as transmasc, as a lesbian, as bisexual and as nonbinary at separate times in my life. at the end of the day, the way society treated me was stemmed from misogyny and prejudice because i was socially stunted, hispanic and queer. not because at some point i wanted to be a man, no in fact my desire to transition was ultimately respected. uneducated people simply did not understand my transness.
all of this is to say, i am transgender, nor masc or fem, simply androgynous in my expression. and when i am mistreated and disrespected worst, it is because i am seen as female. so yeah, i identify with that, because that pain is imbedded in me. imbedded in the women around me. you can convince me that misandry exists when women are truly and finally seen as people.
i really hate the fact that i could be seen as radfem or transphobe or whatever the fuck just because i am intelligent enough to understand that misogyny (alongside racism and religion) is at the root of all problems and believe we would be better fucking off in a matriarchal society. and yes, i believe women can be sexist, to OTHER women. not men. how do people not understand that the term misandry was created just to deflect responsibility, just as white people believe they are oppressed because people of color outwardly fucking hate them because they benefit from white PRIVILEGE. because WHITE women only got their fucking rights a little over a century ago and the cra of 1964 was only 62 fucking years ago. SLAVERY IS STILL A THING. THE WAGE GAP IS STILL A THING. I will not care about mens rights or white peoples fucking rights until women of color are seen as EQUALS.
i’m tired of people acting like trans black women aren’t the main reason we are here today.
and to be clear, tranmisogyny and misogynoir are real issues the trans community has to work on.