#ryanhaywire

[trashpits]

it rly means a lot that u like my canines omg those are the ones i'm most proud of?? idk that makes me rly happy uvu

aaa im glad you are proud of them like they are top percentage canines honestly ccc:

[trashpits]

oh my god??? that fuckin httyd grumps thing is GORGEOUS i LOVE the dragon choices tbh and the ART is SO FUCKING ADORABLE i LOVE IT u r HELLA RAD and i hope u have like 900 WONDERFUL DAYS

thank you so much!!!! this makes me so happy to hear just ah i wasnt sure if anyone would really go for it but i’ve had the idea in my head for a while since httyd is my fav movie and just omg this is such a happy ask thank you so much and i hope you have that many wonderful days as well and then some. thanks again c:

[bostonchungschwa]

You know what? Fuck it. ryanhaywire. Read this. This isn’t a callout. This isn’t me picking a fight. This is an abuse victim telling you how utterly fucked up your post was.

First off. You had no right to make that post. For better or for worse, you are an outside observer in this relationship, as we all are. You see the fraction of their relationship they put on social media and into their videos. Frankly, even if you knew the two personally you would have no right to make a post like that. Callout culture isn’t meant for unaffected outsiders: it is meant for victims to use to warn others of abusers.

And here’s the thing, what bothered me most — you obviously don’t care if Gavin is being abused or not.

If Gavin were being abused — Do you know how much grief and pain you would be putting him through? Do you know how terrified he would be right now?

One of my greatest fears is somebody saying something publicly about my abuse and my abuser punishing me — for spreading lies, for lying to strangers, for making my abuser look bad. Had a “callout” post been made about my abuser while I was still living with her, I would have been beaten. I would have been completely and totally isolated from everyone I knew. I would have been institutionalized. Even now, I am terrified that someone could find my blog and tell her what I’ve written about her. So were Gavin being abused, that’s what you would have put him through. All for the sake of what? Drama? Points?

This is literally an abuse victim’s worst nightmares come to life.

Next time you want to accuse a stranger of being an abuser, maybe spare half a thought for the supposed victim and keep your mouth shut.

ETA: And you know what? Even if it does come out down the line that you were right, I will stand by everything I’ve said, and I will still call you utterly out of line. If you’re “right” then you will have taken an incredible amount of agency away from an abuse victim. You will have made an abuse victim a thousand percent harder to believe -- because if there was really abuse, why didn’t he say anything when your post was made? Why didn’t he come forward? You will have still hurt an abuse victim.

[bostonchungschwa]

ryanhaywire replied to your post “[[MOR] wow the ending to the new facility tour was hilarious, a gag...”

i was worried i was overreacting to his portrayal but i'm glad i'm not alone??

yeah ur def not the only one, friend

[gigglygrumps]

what episode was the cute sneeze(s) in i need it for science

Ok for some reason I literally cannot find it?? But it’s in the Super Mario 64 playthrough in either number 34, 35, or 37… I didn’t rewatch them all but I totally can. x3

[bostonchungschwa]

the about me thing: hi i'm nick and i write fanfiction and iT MAKES PEOPLE CRY AND I ENJOY THEIR TEARS WITH A SIDE OF FUCKING FRIES

[chriswolstenhowdareu]

what about rubberbang shotgunning if u like that kind of stuff bc u need to read that fic anyway

you’re spoilin’ me for choice danno 

[bayeksiwa]

!!!! STASHA STASHA I'M GOING O MY FIRST CON THIS YEAR AND IT'S FUCKIN RTX I AM SO PUMPED

OH MY GOD WHOOOAAA!!!!! RTX IS A BIG ONE HOLY SHIT DUDE!! take me w u tbh