#sabariel

[bonusdragons]

November 20, 2024:

Steel Tertiary, Nocturne, Spines.

Huld of Sabariel's clan!

[jemini-arts]

Sabariel Al’Darina

@sabariel-aldarina

[houses-of-healing]

hi, this is sabariel- i messaged tauriel a few weeks ago about the updated situation with my relationship/friends and was wondering if my message went through?

We have it, mellon nin! Sorry for the wait. I believe several of our admins have just finished their school year, so we should be able to respond a little more efficiently soon! Thank you for checking in, however!

[houses-of-healing]

Dear Tauriel, recently, a boy I was best friends with for three years tried to tell me that feminism doesn't matter. I tried to explain to him why it does, and I thought that he understood, but I guess not. He told all of our friends on campus that I'm a man-hating lesbian. I never thought he would out me as lesbian, because he's gay and knows how it feels to be outed. But now everyone knows I'm lesbian, and they think I hate men, which is not the case, and I don't know what to do. -Sabariel

My dear Sabariel,

Feminism is nothing else but wanting equality between genders, and there is nothing wrong with that. People who pretend otherwise need to do some research on the subject before they speak, that is all.

Now if you have already talked to your friend and explained him, I don’t think there is much more you can do about it unfortunately. But who knows, maybe with time he will understand his mistake. However, he had no right to say mean things about you, or to reveal things you did not wish to be revealed. It was unfair, and rude. Do you really want to be friend with someone like him? As I said, he probably will realise his mistake one day, and understand how awful he has been. But for now I suggest that you try to surround yourself with people who understand and accept you for who you are, and who share your values.

You may feel like everyone is against you, but there are good people in this world, you just need to look for them sometimes!

I wish you the best of luck my dearest mellon!

Love,

Tauriel