hey, guys. so i have an announcement.
i came out to my dad today. he was super cool about it. apparently EVERYONE IN MY FAMILY ALREADY KNEW that i am trans. i mean, i kinda came out to them a year ago. but it went terribly and in a state of fear and frustration i actually turned into a femme lesbian but that’s not me. i am emotional and mentally male. the only thing is that although they know, the only person who knows that i have now come to this this is year is my dad. but i plan on coming out to my brother when my grandparents leave for the summer and when they come back i will then come out to them. my dad is 100% supportive on everything but since i will be eighteen in a year (and four months, still currently sixteen but very close to being seventeen), he wants me to be in charge of any sort of surgical/testosterone stuff. so, when i am eighteen i can start the physical transition, but for now it will just be pronouns and my preferred name, kieran tyler. since he doesn’t buy my clothes usually, he told me that i will be in charge of getting myself a binder, or since my grandma purchases my clothes she’ll have to buy it. but i might just doing the morf binder scheme or something like that cos i have a hard time asking people for money cos i don’t want to be a burden. but, yeah. i can finally start living my life the way i have always wanted to. :-)
also, can i anyone give me any advice on coming out to my brother and grandma? i was thinking with my brother i want to do something comedic like a ‘congrats on your baby boy’ card but my dad says if i do that it’s kind of making fun of this very serious situation. with my grandma i’m gonna use caitlyn jenner as an example cos she’s been following her story so she is kinda getting more information about it.
i’m gonna change my url to suit my new name cos obviously my birthname is in my current. also gonna put a question mark so i can enable replies/answers. ?