OKAY I HAD A THOUGHT AND I NEED TO KNOW WHAT OTHERS THINK
I'm planning out a fic, so let me set the scene for you...
It's sometime after the Layton Mission, around 1990. Maverick and Iceman are basically married, they had a ceremony and everything even though their marriage isn't technically legal. They are each other's emergency contacts. They have a house together, a place where they can always come back to when they are on leave.
Then, the class of 86 gets recalled to Top Gun. They are sent on a mission and either Mav or Ice has to eject.
This innocent results in memory loss. Every memory after the first night where they meet at the O Club is gone. Now the others have to convince the affected pilot of his life, his love, and what to do going forward.
who is more likely to freak out over the fact that they are in fact married to the other person (chaos to ensue)
Maverick
Iceman