Idk me being sensitive about how people talk ab Harlequin ig dwbi
Bruh we ought to be more careful with our language 😑
Love joking about Harlequin being a bottom or a brat as much as anyone else, but like..... we are aware of preferences, right? I'm a sadist myself, but y'all.... they aren't suggestions. They aren't a question. If he states that's what he's comfortable with, then that's what he's comfortable with.
Me? The thought of bottoming is wildly uncomfortable for me (as well physically unfeasible for other reasons). It's a hard limit.
Seeing people going "erhm actually, you need to get penetrated anyways" to him is like cmon man......... I get the sentiment, but some of you take it way too far.
Or, well, thats the gay definition of bottom anyways. But you don't need to be a top or a bottom to have sex. A shocker, I know. You can just be equals with no power exchange and don't need to even be having penetrative sex in the first place.
Like the character is fake, but the way you talk about it certainly does affect real people who may also be strictly a top or strictly a bottom or whatever else.
And even if you mean that he should be a sub, its like. Sure, you can explore that ofc, but it doesn't replace the canon fact that Harlequin prefers to be a dominant top.
Idk im just sensitive ab it bc I share a lot of traits with the guy ig and see myself in him v_v
Just because he's bratty doesnt mean he needs or wants to be physically dominated. We all know he's attention seeking and being self destructive, but why would that justify "taming" him? Punishing him would only reinforce his bad habits.
Idk. I know he's just a character obviously. But the mentality feels gross. Is that how you see people like me? >_>
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