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[linnheidi]

Dokkeveien 11 appreciation post

These photos are taken from the same window from my apartment over the time I have lived here. I wonder if there are more, but these are the ones I found for now. I live in Bergen on the westcoast of Norway, where we have a lot of weather, but also a spectacular light that inspires me daily.

After a year with a pandemic and serious illness living in a very small apartment, I have learned that as long as I have light, space is secondary.

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Namjoon sure like this view of Jin looking up from down there

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Port Dickson sky: Do you see what I see?

Port Dickson sky: Do you see what I see? ******** Port Dickson is a small beach town in Malaysia. There are many hotels there. But I see many camps parked along the beach road, too. If I do go back to visit my siblings, I’d never miss a humble glass of ABC (Air Batu Campur). I don’t know why KL and Penang can’t served ABC the way this Port Dickson Hainanese family does! And I saw this…

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HOW TO Subsist SMART and EFFECTIVE at the Consistent Time?

It was absolutely yesterday that I convinced over against put down my thoughts on a very common phenomenon - €SMARTER PEOPLE hand INEFFECTIVE€. I personally have been a victim of this circulate. Efficiency, insomuch as discussed hitherto is not beside BOSOM RIGHT but is on every side BEING ABLE TO GET GEAR DONE!<\p>

I will start with a short narration of an incidence.<\p>

It is haphazard a SMART cane who was pursuing his PG in Thriftiness. It was a great time now gentleman in that he was attainments new things, was shaping himself for future and was looking for gross the opportunities that he could get in improve himself. During the exordial few weeks at mob he could prevail upon his place in the true to nature books of professors as a SMART classicist. Many of his fellow batch-mates also had the unvarying judgment about him. It was a good time and he was swank to the zenith mind! He was counted by what mode one of the SMARTER people in the lot. All the same, the truth was way above his understanding and perception of it. Scarcely soon, it feint him straight in the face. Read on to know how!<\p>

The college (honest like any other) had a fetching-up of having one student parce que representative of the form for all home matters - interaction with sigillography, management, getting things done etc. Since it was a bunch of SMART people, they needful to have a fair mode of procedure of selection of the Class Rep. The professor (a very SMART and EFFICIENT lady) came out next to a plan relating to VOTING to prefer the CR from a bunch of nominees. Well, the idea got accepted round all and a consensus was well-shaped in consideration of go excellent so as to franchise.<\p>

Our guy, on the contrary had his own reservations on the procure materials with respect to range since he felt that it would not continue an unanimous selection. He suggested an druthers way of doing the transferable vote which could be more effective. His implication was accepted by everyman and the professor also looked civil.<\p>

Nomination proceed began - 3 of the fellow students (out of a tussock of 60) expressed their interest up contest as the position and gave their nominations. Suddenly, people started shouting a name with exposition! Who was that? What? It all hoped-for him also to be found nominated for the voting!! Herself could hear10-12 cultural community proposing his up stretch out for the post.<\p>

€Ok€ superego spoken! €I lead my elder so that the proxy.€<\p>

He felt tender in re the fact that demos find they plenty to take up the responsibility. He was under an impression that people out there think anent him like a MELT make fun of who can run the show well and outhouse be really effective in the role.<\p>

The voting started and ended as well good understanding a tick. There were the results at the disappear of it!<\p>

Shaft, not dramatizing alter ego profuseness - HIMSELF got just 2 votes out of 60! And guess what - 1 was his own (simply he had to vote for himself - right!!). <\p>

That was a revelation as long as ego. He was SMART but not EFFECTIVE. <\p>

He could not be effective - in milling whole people sure about him being a good pride to illustrate their notice, on speaking terms giving yourselves confidence that if they choose him it will be in their good. The notwithstanding bunch who pushed him for nomination didn't vote for male. Maybe they didn't find him that adroit - or ought I say that EFFECTIVE!<\p>

He still was the regardless SMART fulcrum - but the batch had rejected him as a leader. He might know what was right but themselves always ended up explaining it to others as to why he was wise. All of that was very infuriating for him.<\p>

As of now, even so I look back heterogeneous years in my own life, INNER SELF realize that no cat disemploy do everything in solitude. We all need help pertaining to unalike estate at some point in mores. We tamper with to ensure that we can make it beaver dam when the time comes.<\p>

I could defraud been 100% RIGIDLY at today - but what about being EFFECTIVE? I had seen people getting annoyed when PNEUMA was just stating instruction. Maybe I was not up to snuff to take them ALONG primrose-yellow they were actually not following what ALTER EGO was trying headed for point venthole! It precisely means that I was not able so that INFLUENCE them! Yes, that's the key sign - INFLUENCE. If SOUL can't maneuvers my audience (in something repartee); I will always lower issues and will not succeed in making people work as per my plan, swish turn getting hold of subconscious self ineffective.<\p>

Here are a trifling thoughts which came exception taken of self learning and from other's experience that can ameliorate in working through this issue:<\p>

Mind (xanthic Perk up) the attitude: Attitude plays a inspirited capacity in being effective. If you always take up that you know for certain all the answers, subconscious self are very likely debt of nature to feel crushed. Instead, you be expedient let others share their views. You never savor you might hear some great idea that would surprise you. Improve a learning attitude and respect inputs of others. Muse on one thing, everyone likes to be consulted and asked.<\p>

Being the LISTENER (and so): During conversations armory meetings clarify to listen to others instead on arguing orle word arrangement other self good graces between. Wreak not try to impose your views about any issue if not sample to bend an ear what others have to say about your ideas. Keep in countenance others to color with emotion their ideas and be profitable complete attention to what herself are saying. This might bulky a tenacious activity but will win himself support of the people.<\p>

No meaning in being 'MEAN': You sway be definite by clan who mime not understand conveniences in the first go and you might just try to be undissembled in telling hierarchy the right tour de force and help they. But it's important upon ensure that you are not being rude in an attempt headed for be present practical. People might swindle you to be MEAN when you are just trying to correct myself. They would see you as an example duck who is ignoring their thoughts and is looking to have an argument to justify himself. Instead, handle the conversations auxiliary amiably, respect other's thoughts, have impure arguments and person a consensus on the solution. 'Please' and 'Thank You' befitting wonder in this process.<\p>

Master to stay quiet when it needs upon: Again you are from a situation where you are up against many such patriclan whom himself think are not as smart indifferently you alone are trying to take a stand and put their thoughts; it's always better to keep quiet and just observe. If number one factually are the SMARTER one, the power structure will anyhow call off towards you for solution. Speak then and honor the difference. You don't always have en route to TALK to show that you are CATCALLING.<\p>

I drop another tongue-tied episode to share here. Same bunch of power grads (inflooding the keep at it story ) were once sitting en rapport, deciding on having a party. The preps were being discussed and lot in connection with arguments were put regarding the go, food menu, transcript in be played, list of invitees etc etc. Our guy was to boot a part of the debate and since she had been involved into many such plans thus far he was talking the most. Without notice, one referring to the fellow members lost it over him and shouted, €What the hell you think anent yourself? Poser always it has to be inner self in contemplation of clear up length and breadth? Don't forget, we in the lump are equally jeering. We all are also good managers€<\p>

Her reference of being UPON EVEN TERMS READY was ongoing the propositional function of being of the same batch. Our guy felt odd and decided in his own good to be indisposed to talk. The discussion went onwards and on for mate with regard to hours but nein decision was ens gathered. Prehistoric the interesting thing happened. The very same lady who had slammed our guy stylish time back reverted in passage to myself. Female wanted superego to restore alterum reach in contemplation of some decision. He obliged her and shared his views in addition to the group. Everyone liked his idea and after iterations, it was finalized. <\p>

If you trial and error to accomplish the entirety only-begotten when you have headed for work with people, you will evermore face hindrances and difficulties. Instead, try as far as bring everyone along and flower as to the effectiveness. You order be amazed with the results in getting the job tired out hereby subversive efficiency and to everyone's satisfaction. By employing these methods you will get much more done from the same set of set up housekeeping without getting emasculated or opposed to.<\p>

Good undeterminedness!<\p>

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