SPN headcanons for How Dean would act towards Sam’s s/o and vice versa please? Thank you 💛💛
☰ Dean
■ How Dean acts around you and towards you can depend on how long he’s known you and especially if he’s known you before you and Sam began dating. If he’s known you beforehand, he’s pretty comfortable with the relationship and friendly towards you. If not, it can take him some time to trust you and can seem distant and almost suspicious of you at first.
■ Either way he will warm up to you in time it’s just a matter of earning his trust, and if you are real and honest with him it won’t take long for him to trust you and approve of you and the relationship especially if you have anything in common with him. Such as liking the same music or food.
■ But even if you don’t really have anything in common with him it won’t make him dislike you or anything like that. But if the two of you have nothing in common it can be harder for him to stir up a conversation with you if the two of you are ever left alone with each other, which can also make things awkward on occasion.
■ No matter what he will treat you a lot like a younger sibling he will tease you, make fun of you and give you a hard time especially if given the opportunity. But this is a good thing because it means he’s comfortable with you, if he doesn’t tease you it means he’s either mad at you or uncomfortable with you.
■ Because he does treat you like family, he becomes very protective of you, which can also make him very bossy or controlling with you in dangerous situations. That doesn’t mean he doesn’t trust your skills or abilities he just doesn’t want you to get hurt, He can be particularly over protective of you if you and him are in a dangerous situation when Sam is not around.
■ Doesn’t mind including you in things, hunts, investigating, or things going on in general because you can be a useful part of the team. As long as you are open honest an and don’t get in between him and Sam you’ll really have no problems getting along with him. And even if you do manage to make him mad, things can generally be resolved easily.
☰ Sam
■ Sam gets along with you pretty well right from the start, though it may take some time before he truly trusts you. But he is friendly and polite with you regardless and as long as you are genuine and honest it’s just a matter of time of a few weeks before he trusts you and feels comfortable around you.
■ Of course, if he’s known you before you and Dean got together like you’ve known them for years. He will trust you from the start of the relationship and also really has no problems with the relationship either as long as the two of you are happy together. He can even be very supportive of the relationship and likes seeing you two together.
■ He gets along well with you whether the two of you have anything in common or not, because he will try to find something the two of you have in common whether a hobby or interest and he can be open minded and really makes an effort to have a good friendship with you.
■ Is protective of you to an extent but really only shows a protective side strongly when you and him are alone or away from Dean in a serious or dangerous situation. But he’s not bossy or demanding he’s just far more watchful over you and will stop you from doing anything dangerous or reckless.
■ He treats you like family and can tease you occasionally but not too often more like if you give him a reason to, like being clumsy. Generally, he is very supportive and comforting towards you and can be a very good friend who is very reassuring and helpful about giving you advice. Though he is more or less likely to tease you depending on how you act, such as being less likely if you tend to act more motherly towards them or more likely if you act more immature around them.
■ He is also very good at helping to mediate and resolve things when you and Dean are arguing or not getting along. And he has no problems pointing out which one of you is in the wrong or being unreasonable. And will help talk out some peace between the two of you especially when it’s dealing with something more serious.
Hello! Could I request a set of headcanons (for both Dean and Sam) about them deeply falling in love with the Reader - who is their long-time best friend, a powerful natural witch (the brothers have always been aware of the fact + she is way more powerful than Rowena), and whose parents (an American hunter and a British witch) were killed by a BMoL (R was born in the UK, so she has a British accent - idk if that's really relevant, lol)?
♥ Oh yes, I wish I got more detailed requests like this, I love this.♥ And yes British accents are always relevant.♥ (Wish I had a cool accent..)
☰ Dean
■ Takes him some time to realize that he loves you, because you are a longtime friend, he doesn’t particularly see you in a romantic way right away. In fact, he’s unlikely to actually recognize that he actually loves you romantically until he hears you talk about dating or even having a date, or if someone flirts with you or touches you in front of him.
■ He can act a little strange or suddenly annoyed if you mention having a date, or even that you are looking for someone. And if someone were to flirt with you or try to ask you out in front of him at a bar or restaurant etc, he can react before you can even respond to it, and his reaction can be pretty extreme and hostile.
■ The immediate and rather hostile reaction of him telling the person off can seem odd or out of character to the extent of seeming suspicious. But he’ll deny it if you or Sam ask him what was up with his reaction, instead just insisting that the guy was a jerk and he could tell by looking at him.
■ But this sort of incident is enough to make him realize he likes you more than as just a friend, but still he won’t say anything to you about it right away even though he now knows he’s falling in love with you. It’ll at least be a week if not longer before he chooses to tell you how he feels. Until then he can act a little strange or distant around you.
■ When he does confess his feelings to you it can be at a random time and place, because he can be compelled to confess his feelings after something like an argument, disagreement, him or you getting hurt or someone else flirting or asking you out. So, his confession can be very sudden and bluntly stated.
■ Doesn’t push you to go out with him but he will end up laying his feelings out for you and leaves it up to you on where to go from here, which means it’s up to you to proceed with a relationship or keep things as just friends either way he’ll respect your choice.
■ Really doesn’t care that you are a witch especially as long as you aren’t using your powers to hurt others or for anything bad. And really see’s your powers and abilities as very helpful. But at the same time can dislike you using your powers too casually or recklessly, but also can’t complain if you’re helping people.
■ Very protective over you even before the two of you are in a relationship but even more protective over you in a relationship because he will not want to lose you. Because of that he can seem bossy or even over protective or possessive, such as not liking for you to go places alone or not telling him when you go somewhere.
■ Will occasionally tease you for your British accent especially for using different words then he’s use to for items, such as saying chips instead of fries or crisps instead of potato chips, Though you can also confuse him by saying words that he doesn’t understand because they aren’t the American term such as parts of a car or items of clothing. (Examples: torch, flat, lift, trainers, boot bonnet, etc.) can make him hesitate and ask "What the hell are you talking about?”
■ As the relationship progresses, he can become more sarcastic or teasing with you, which is actually a good thing because it means he feels more comfortable and close to you, and he will expect you to kind of tease him or give him a hard time as well. He can even be a little concerned if you don’t tease him.
■ Really does see the two of you as having a lot in common since you did have a parent that was an American Hunter and you both have reason to hate or distrust the British men of letters, which can also make him understand any revenge you might want.
■ He can be very thoughtful and even somewhat romantic when he wants to be, coming up with some very meaningful gift ideas especially when it comes to special occasions like your anniversary on your birthday. Even giving you extra things like flowers if he knows that’s something you would find thoughtful.
☰ Sam
■ Really doesn’t take all that long for him to realize that he loves you as more than just a friend, but doesn’t know how to even go about telling you how he feels and really doesn’t know if he should tell you or not because he can worry about ruining the friendship if you do not feel the same towards him
■ He can be more inclined to tell you how he feels if you show some kind of romantic interest in him as well, even if it’s just some subtle hints. He can also be more motivated to confess his feelings if you show interest in dating or someone flirts with you. Though generally won’t interrupt if someone flirts with you.
■ Will make some flirty or suggestive comments towards you, more on the subtle side, nothing too obvious or over the top. Just to see how you may respond to it, kind of testing things before deciding if he should fully confess his feelings for you or not.
■ When he does confess his feelings for you, he will have spent time thinking it over and planning the time and place to confess to you. Nothing about it will be random he’ll have planned it pretty well and create an opportunity to be alone with you, where the two of you won’t be interrupted. It’ll be obvious by how he acts that there is something serious on his mind.
■ When he confesses his feelings, he is very genuine and thoughtful about explaining how he feels, and he doesn’t want to keep his feelings from you anymore and would rather take the chance and see if there’s a possibility of a relationship rather than wondering what could be.
■ Won’t pressure you to go out with him or rush you to give an answer he can even offer that you take some time or a day to think it over especially if you are quiet or seem hesitant after he confesses, almost just looking for a reason to get out of the situation if you don’t immediately respond positively. Though it can make things a bit awkward between the two of you if the two of you just decide to be friends, but he is noticeably relieved if the two of you do decide to date.
■ Doesn’t mind one bit that you are a witch as long as you are good and not using your powers for bad purposes or to hurt/ kill people or at least people who don’t deserve it. If you use your powers to help people or to hunt, he’s completely fine with you being a witch and doesn’t judge you one bit.
■ He can be slightly protective of you but really only in serious or dangerous situations, because he knows you are powerful and capable of protecting yourself. That doesn’t mean he won’t worry about you, he does and will show concern for you, but doesn’t baby you or boss you around because he trusts you won’t do anything stupid or reckless.
■ He does like to know where you are or where you are going and such if you’re not with him, just so he knows when to worry or do something if he hasn’t heard from you or you are not back on time. He can easily over react thinking something bad has happened to you if you’re not back on time or don’t answer his calls or texts.
■ Doesn’t mind your British accent, in fact he can even find it quite cute at times. He may tease you for it once in a great while just because of the difference in pronouncing words or having different names for objects, and he can point out what something is called in the US, like a flashlight instead of a torch. But never makes you feel like he’s criticizing you or talking down to you.
■ Is very loving and comforting towards you and can even understand how you may feel towards the British men of Letters, or others who have hurt you but at the same time won’t fully condone revenge at least not in a way that could put you in danger, but will help you if an opportunity arises for revenge.
■ Can have a very hard time figuring out what to do for you for dates or where to take you. Or what to get you for special occasions like your anniversary, holidays or your birthday so he can really struggle to come up with good ideas, and will really worry you won’t like what he got you. Though he does actually tend to be very good at picking out meaningful gifts.
🥀 Gott kvöld! Is there any way you could do some SPN hcs, some general relationship hcs for Sam? 🥀
■ He is very protective of you because of his line of work and is especially if you are involved in hunting as well. But at the same time, he will prefer for you to be a hunter because at least then you will know how to protect and defend yourself.
■ Isn’t particularly for or against PDA but can dislike it in certain situations or in front of certain people, because he can find it pretty embarrassing in front of some people. But otherwise he can be fairly open to it and won’t flat out reject affection from you.
■ Not one to spoil you with material items or give you gifts a lot, but he will give you presents on special occasions, holidays, anniversary or your birthday. He may give you a couple gifts for special occasions and they will be very meaningful and special gifts that he put a lot of thought into.
■ Has a tendency to touch your head and hair rather frequently when he’s trying to be more affectionate or comforting towards you, or occasionally to get your attention. He will also pull you closer to him or into hugs when he feels like something is on your mind or you are sad or upset, because he won’t be able to just sit back and do nothing if you are troubled.
■ He will have a bit of a playful attitude with you and will tease you occasionally if given a reason to, and won’t mind if you are teasing or sarcastic with him either. You will never hurt his feelings with some sarcasm or teasing unless you tease about serious subjects.
■ He does take the relationship very seriously and will not rush the relationship because he will want things to move at a steady pace. and will not rush you to open up or do anything you aren’t ready for or anything you are un comfortable with. He can also be uncomfortable and obviously hesitant if you try to push him to do things, he’s not ready for, something like meeting your friends or especially your family, particularly if you have a “normal” family.
■ Is a very good listener and very good at giving advice as well, he likes being able to talk with you and can often come to you to hear your thoughts or opinions on different situations or problems especially if he’s dealing with a difficult situation or decision.
■ He can be very over protective and even a bit possessive at times because he can really worry about you getting hurt or even killed. Losing you can be a very real fear of his because he has lost a lot of loved ones before and will be absolutely terrified of losing you. Because of that he can get upset if you are reckless or do something dangerous or sketchy without telling him, or don’t answer him if he calls or texts you. Which can occasionally make him a little too overbearing.
Just had an idea, could I get a SPN headcanon with Sam and Dean having a S/O who isnt a hunter but a writer who enjoys writing all about their hunts and gathering info and lore of creatures into an easily accesable format.
☰ Sam
■ Will seem a little hesitant about the idea at first, because even though you’re not a hunter he’ll worry about putting you in danger because it will still pull you into things and you could easily become associated with them and end up a target. And he’ll be worried about putting you through that as a possibility.
■ But as long as it’s something you insist you want to do or you’ve already been exposed to the supernatural then he’s far more open to it, but he will still want to keep you safe. Which means he’ll move you into the bunker almost immediately, if you are willing to move in that is, he won’t pressure you to if you’re uncomfortable with the idea.
■ If you are comfortable with moving into the bunker, he moves you in right away, though he doesn’t mean it to seem like he’s rushing the relationship in anyway. Because he doesn’t really see it as moving in together in the typical sense, he’ll want you to have your own room and your own space to have alone time or to write without being bothered.
■ Though he’s completely fine if you want to sleep in his room in the same bed, and he will come into your room to talk to you or spend time together. Though he is also very polite and will always knock before entering your room even if your door is open, he’ll still knock, and he’s pretty observant and can tell when you want to be left alone and when you want his attention.
■ Really supportive with your writing and the fact you want to use your writing abilities to gather information and kind of catalogue the information for easy access. Not only does he find it very useful for doing research when at the bunker, but also likes being able to call you for help or to research something when he’s away with a case.
■ He can find it a bit awkward at first to tell you about a case or a hunt at times, especially in the beginning because he’s never really had to explain the events to anyone. But he’s happy to tell you all about a hunt or about anyone or creatures they encounter because he wants to help you create detailed information,
■ Can see you more of a man/woman of letters then him or Dean because you are going to further lengths to record information, at least more then what they’ve done. And if it makes you happy to do it, he’s very happy to help you however he can. He’ll never seem bothered by questions and really encourages you to ask questions, especially if he can tell you want to ask him something.
■ He can be very helpful towards you and can get you a lot of supplies if you like to write anything by hand. Such as pens, pencils, high lighters, folders, notebooks, etc., anything he knows you will like. Especially if writing is something you are very passionate about or enjoy writing about other things and not just about supernatural things.
■ However, he won’t want it to feel like all the two of you do is talk about hunting and about information and love, after all the two of you are dating. That doesn’t mean he wants to go out all the time for dates but wants to spend time with you casually and affectionately, and talking with you about yourself and on a deeper level.
■ He will also want you to feel at home in the bunker and won’t want you to feel like it’s a work place, and wants you to feel comfortable moving around the bunker and doing things. He wants you to feel like you can roam around freely or do as you please like it’s your home, because that’s how he’ll want you to see it.
■ Does like to read your writings or see how you’re organizing of information is going, he’ll always offer help but also won’t force you to take his help either. After all he will not want to mess up your system or how you like your information and writing put together.
■ Also wants you to be able to get along well with Dean and to be able to do things with the three of you together, going out for meals, cooking at the bunker or getting take out, watch a movie or so occasionally. However, it can also be fairly awkward when Sam and Dean aren’t getting along or arguing.
☰ Dean
■ Can be a little surprised at first when you mention wanting to write like this, but can’t complain about it and will support the idea of writing and recording information. Because it’s not something he’s about to do himself, so he’s more than happy to help or support you with writing.
■ He does suggest you move in to the bunker because you can access the collection of information the men of letters had as well. Aside from that he’ll suggest moving into the bunker for he can help to keep you safe, because he will worry about your safety from the moment the two of you begin dating
■ Is curious about what motivated you to want to write about their hunts and gather information, particularly if it isn’t obvious. Like if they didn’t meet you by saving you or dealing with something supernatural. But if you have a connection that he doesn’t know about like a parent being a hunter, witch, men of letters or you had a friend or loved one killed by something, he’ll want to know about it.
■ He does worry about you and your safety, that goes without saying which is why he likes you being in the bunker and he won’t like you leaving the bunker, or at least he won’t like you leaving the bunker alone. Though it can make him seem a little over protective or even possessive he’ll want to know where you are, where you’re going with who and what you’re doing and when you’ll be back.
■ Lets you settle into the bunker and while he’ll give you your own room and space, he can frequently invade your room, and can kind of hope to sleep together in his room or yours. But he can also tell when you want left alone to write, though he can kind of linger in your room without saying much when something’s on his mind.
■ Doesn’t always care to share a lot of information about a hunt or a case, sometimes just because he’s in a bad mood or if he’s not getting along with you, Sam or Cas, which can make him. Be very blunt and short when tell telling you about the hunt, especially if you press him to tell you about how things went.
■ He may even insist that you talk to Sam if you want more details, though this can also be sort of like a trap if Dean’s in a bad mood because of Sam. He can even end up in a worse mood seeing you talking to Sam, and can lead to him ignoring you or avoiding you for a while.
■ However, there are times where he likes talking to you about hunts and particularly about new creatures or supernatural things that he hasn’t seen before. He can even seem excited to tell you things from time to time, which tends to be when he wants your attention or when he wants to spend time with you.
■ Really doesn’t show a great interest in your writings or even how you go about organizing the information or anything really. Because he’s not big on reading or doing research unless he absolutely has to because if he needs some information, he’ll prefer to just ask you and have you pinpoint the info tell him the info or at least point him in the right direction.
■ He can show a mild interest in your writings occasionally or fake an interest at times particularly when he wants your attention. Like if you are busy writing and he wants to do something with you but doesn’t want to ask you to stop. Instead he can just be kind of annoying or pester you, by lingering or wandering about your room, looking at your stuff, looking through your writings, asking questions and just getting progressively more annoying. Even though he’s really not trying to be annoying.
■ Doesn’t really offer to help you with your writings, if you need help or need something to help with your writing, he trusts that you’ll ask him. He will help if you ask for it, and can kind of ask in directly about your writings like asking "How’s the writing going?" or “You doing alright?” when he sees you writing
■ Can stop you from writing if he feels like you’ve been waiting for too long or you’re getting to the point of skipping meals or skipping out on sleep. Because he’ll be concerned about you and if telling you to stop doesn’t work he’ll physically stop you, even if he has to pick you up and carry you away from your desk.
🌻 Spn headcanons for first dates with Sam and Dean? Please! Thank you!
☰ Sam
■ Sam really won’t put a lot of thought into going places or ideas for dates until the two of you have been together for a while, which means a lot of date locations can be left up to you unless you really push him to come up with an idea.
■ Will go for simple and short dates at the start of the relationship going out for lunch, getting coffee, simple things like this in the beginning for the two of you can get to know each other better and spend a good amount of time talking.
■ Though this doesn’t mean he’s against other idea’s because he can go along with just about anything you suggest or where ever you take him, the Zoo, Aquarium, festival, amusement park etc, he can just seem more uncomfortable with dates that could last all day, but that’s more so just nervousness of running out of things to talk about.
■ However, he can be much more comfortable with longer or more unique dates in the beginning it the two of you have known each other for a while, like if the two of you have been friends for years or such, he can be much more open to longer dates or trips.
☰ Dean
■ Whether the two of you have just met or if the two of you have known each other for years chances are high. that he’ll take you to a bar for drinks in the evening or at least a sports bar. Though that doesn’t mean he’ll flat out refuse to go anywhere else.
■ He’s just far more reluctant and disinterested in any place that doesn’t serve alcohol. So, he can seem disinterested or bored with places that don’t serve alcohol unless there’s something else that can keep him busy like games or rides at an amusement Park.
■ Does prefer date ideas in the afternoon or evening and especially won’t want to wake up early in the morning for a date, which means he won’t just go along with anything you suggest whether it’s at the beginning of the relationship or weeks or months into the relationship he won’t hesitate to show his disinterest or call an idea stupid if he doesn’t like it.
■ Though a lot of where he’s comfortable with going depends on the atmosphere of the place, because he won’t care for crowds or busy areas, and while he likes bars, he won’t like clubs. He will like talking with you though no matter where the two of you are, and can go out of his way to try and impress you if given the opportunity.
Simeon had only relationship in high school with a boy. He fell in love so easily, surrounded by confusing emotions and empty words, he blinded himself from the deceit he should have seen in the boy. It was toxic and almost ended violently for Simeon until his brother Sam stepped in. Sam did handle it very violently though, and was arrested and held for a night in the county jail before being released. It’s still on his record to this day.
Samuel was always seen as dangerous due to his unwieldy temper. People preferred his brother, Simeon, much more due to his quiet charm despite the face that Sam was more socially “fun” in the way that high school students tended to gravitate towards.