Bleach, Bungo Stray Dogs, and Hetalia, hope that's alright! 5'5, straight female. INFP Capricorn. Extremely empathetic (both my biggest strength and weakness). I'm stupidly easy-going and it's extremely hard to offend me, I adore dark humor. It's also really hard to anger me, but when I do everyone's scared of me though I'm only ever angry at myself. At first I'm rather timid and unable to hold a conversation but I do warm up quickly and am rather bubbly. (1/2) ā
ā° Matched with Alfred Jones (America)
Alfred will take an interest in you very early on and show a real interest in getting to know you from the moment the two of you meet. However, he doesnāt particularly show a romantic interest in you because he doesnāt immediately have romantic feelings for you, but you do catch his attention simply by your personality alone. He can come on pretty strong when it comes to getting to know you and he will include you in just about everything, trying to get you to go places with him though more in a group setting in the beginning rather than one on one.Ā
Trying to get you to go places like the Zoo, amusement parks, festivals, the movies or just hanging out at friends houses for games or movie nights. In fact, he wonāt really develop feelings for you until the two of you have known each other for at least a few weeks and has spent a fair amount of time with you. He will love how timid and kind of shy you are in the beginning, and he will love talking with you and breaking you out of your shell a bit, which you do warm up quickly and become quite cheerful and bubbly which he will love to see.Ā
Once he develops feelings for you it doesnāt take him long to realize that he loves you and wonāt waste much time asking you out, though before he does flat out ask you out, he will become more and more flirty and suggestive with you. Suggesting that you two would make a good couple, or that you would make a good girlfriend, his advances are all rather cute and even cheesy though. After a week or so of being more and more flirtatious with you he will ask you out in a pretty direct way, and pretty randomly too, he wonāt make a big deal about asking you out and will behave normally, not seeming nervous or awkward about it and can even seem pretty confident about asking you out.Ā
Once the two of you begin dating, he is very loyal, caring and supportive towards you from the very beginning, he really can be like your best friend especially if you open up to him and put an equal amount of effort into the relationship as well. He will never seriously pressure you to open up to him because you do tend to keep things to yourself when it comes to your own issues and emotions, even fairly self-deprecating.Ā
Because of this he will not want to push you to open up to him or talk to him when something is bothering you or you are feeling down, heāll be afraid of pushing you away from him if he tries to hard to get you to open up. But that doesnāt mean he wonāt try a little bit at least, but heās very gentle and somewhat childish about nudging you to talk or open up about your problems but knows when to stop.Ā
While he is impatient at times, he is surprisingly patient with you when it matters or when he knows it has to do with something serious or important, like when it comes to your depression or anxiety. He is very protective over you because of your depression and anxiety and is very watchful over how others talk to you and treat you, whether its your friends, family, coworkers or strangers. He is will defend you and become rather argumentative and hostile towards anyone he feels isnāt treating you right, though he wonāt immediately jump in because heāll wait to see how youāll respond and if you can handle things on your own. But if you donāt respond or stand up for yourself if someone is criticizing you, bullying you or even teasing you, but at the same time he wonāt make a huge deal of it if itās a small issue and you wonāt really be bothered by it.Ā
But he will not like feeling like anyone is getting away with hurting your feelings or possibly contributing to or making your anxiety and depression worse. He isnāt exactly the most knowledgeable when it comes things like depression but will learn from you and he will want to be helpful and know what he can do to help you through things when you are going through a tough time. Even if all he can do is stay with you or relax and have a lazy day at home eating snacks and watching movies together, no matter how small or silly something might seem to you if it will help you or comfort you heāll be happy to do it.Ā
Which you both love scary and supernatural things though you both get spooked relatively easily, so you really wonāt have to worry about him teasing you for being easily scared. In fact, you being afraid can add fuel to his fear especially after watching a scary movie, to the point that you can both end up scared inside a blanket/pillow fort with flashlights.Ā
He is very energetic and may see overly hyper at times but his energy is very focused purely on activities that interest him or catch his attention, he can become very lazy when disinterested in something or force to do something he doesnāt want to. At the same time, he can be pretty easy to manipulate into doing things, reverse psychology will work very well on him or even making a competition out of something can typically spark his interest.Ā
It is really hard to anger you and itās also very difficult to anger him as well and even when he does get mad he tends to get over it rather quickly, this means arguments between the two of you are pretty much non existent but that doesnāt mean the two of you wonāt disagree about things, though these can usually be talked through peacefully and relatively easily.Ā
He does show a lot of interest in you and the things you enjoy so he can bug you a bit when he sees you doing stuff like crafts or other hobbies you have. He can also be full of questions when it comes to stuff you are doing or things you have made, or even just questions about you in general. He is very affectionate and cuddly with you and develops a habit of picking you up especially during hugs, unless you absolutely hate being picked up or struggle.Ā
Though he can also randomly pick you up bridal style or over his shoulder, usually when he wants to go do something with you and heās really excited about it. He does have a tendency to be very spontaneous and may want to go do something as soon as the idea strikes him.Ā
Over all he is deathly loyal to you and will go to the ends of the earth for you once he falls in love with you, he can get pretty jealous if you spend a lot of time with others particularly if its with anyone he doesnāt really like. He is very encouraging and supportive, not just of things you want to do but over your ideas, thoughts and behaviors. He will push you to do better and work to achieve any goals you set for yourself, but he is also very understanding and comforting whenever there are set backs or failures, always being there to help you and to pick up the pieces and help you move forward with him for the best future together.
ā° Headcanons Between you two
ā He can come across as rather clingy at times and will invade your personal space nearly any time he is around, but particularly when he wants your attention. Sitting close to you, hugging you, holding your hand, resting his head on your shoulder or your lap, etc.
ā Is not the best at picking out gifts for you or knowing what you would like but that doesnāt stop him from getting you presents and even surprising you with something at random times. Which can be anything from a stuffed animal, a key chain, coffee cup, candy, snacks, jewelry and everything in between.
ā While he is very affectionate, he doesnāt often instigate things further to sexual acts often without you showing some kind of interest or the mood seems right. This is simply because he doesnāt think to escalate things further most of the time.
ā Has a tendency to touch your head, hair and your hands a lot when heās trying to get your attention or wanting to be affectionate with you, grabbing your hand to make you hold hands with him or touching your hair, chin or cheeks to get you to look at him. Especially at times when you are sad or feeling depressed.
ā° Other Possible Matches
ā Shuhei Hisagi
Shuhei is very loyal, loving and considerate with you which makes him really patient and will not force you to do things or rush you to open up to him. Though it really doesnāt take him very long to open up to you, especially if you show an interest in getting to know him or if you ask him questions. He does show curiosity in learning more about you and is a really good listener, not only is he attentive when you talk but he remembers a lot of what you say especially when he knows its something important to you. He can nudge you and encourage you to try new things and do what you want in life, supporting you the whole way to achieve your goals no matter how big or small they are.
ā Osamu Dazai
Osamu can have a rather dark sense of humor and can really make either dark or inappropriate comments at times, but in general he has a very upbeat attitude so most of his remarks wonāt really seem serious. He is very loving, attentive and protective over you though he can seem a bit secretive at times, particularly if you ask him a lot of questions or press him to learn more about him. He has a way of not taking your questions about him seriously and can blow off a lot of questions or even change the subject. He is very encouraging and loving but has a tendency to tease you lightly when an opportunity arises like teasing you for getting scared easily. But he is very reliable and will have your back at all times.
I'm so sorry! I forgot to label my three match up asks for you, but they're all pt(number) with 'ā' by them. If needed I can redo them if they're confusing;;;
ā„ Itās okay, but Normally I donāt make exceptions but luckily your parts came in back to back so Iāll accept it this time, Iām going to label your match up with this symbolĀ ā”
ā„ Actually now that Iām looking over your match up again, I am going to ask you to resend your match up because the three asks I have that I thought went together, now I donāt think they do, I think I received pt.1 and pt.3 of yours and part 2 of someone elseās.
Iām still happy to do your match up but I want to make sure I have all the right parts.
And anyone wanting a match up Please read my Instructions page here and if you have made a Match up request please check this list here to make sure I received your match up.Ā ā„
I'm so sorry! I forgot to label my three match up asks for you, but they're all pt(number) with 'ā' by them. If needed I can redo them if they're confusing;;;
ā„ Itās okay, but Normally I donāt make exceptions but luckily your parts came in back to back so Iāll accept it this time, Iām going to label your match up with this symbolĀ ā”
š„anon here; I hope you're doing okay! I'm so sorry for what you've been through lately and wish you all the best. Feel loved and hugged, we all missed you terribly
ā„ Thank you, it really means a lot to me, I actually didnāt really think anyone would notice or care very much if I never came back or if I returned. Itās really touching that people care and pretty eye opening in a way too, so I really do appreciate it.Ā ā„ā„
So SO so happy to see you BACK!!! I really hope you are okay and taking care of yourself! Please know you can always talk to us even if you just need to get something off your mind! *Hugs*
Thank you very much, I am really happy to be back and itās really nice to be writing again, I somehow forgot how much I enjoy writing itās almost therapeutic so I really look forward to answering requests and writing some new things. Thank you, I think I need to learn to be more open with others and rely on others, thatās something Iām still working on.Ā ā„
š Could I get a match up for fruits basket and noragami? Im collaborative and a team player. I'm socially flexable and a good communicator. I love investigating and I'm rule oriented, if I agree. I'm creative and live theater and writing. I can interact with people I donāt know on a personal level and find common topics to discuss or talk about topics i havenāt thought about. I'm emotionally distant but in observant of others! I have chin length pink hair and hazel eyes. I'm also 4'10! Thanks!
ā° Matched with Ayame
You will catch his eye almost immediately and he wonāt waste much time at all in approaching you, while your appearance is what initially draws him to you, he will quickly fall in love with your personality and who you are as a whole. He can be pretty forward, suggestive and flirty with you rather early on, but he doesnāt over do it and will tone it down if he notices you pulling away or feeling uncomfortable by him.Ā
Though he is pretty direct he wonāt ask you out right away because he will want to get to know you better and on a deeper level first, rather then just jumping into a relationship without really knowing each other. When he does ask you out it will seem really random and out of the blue, but he will actually put quite a it of thought into when and how he should ask you out.Ā
But he also wonāt make a big ordeal out of asking you out or at least not in a public way like drawing a crowd or anything, instead he will take you somewhere the two of you can be fairly alone or a place where people wonāt really be watching or paying attention to the two of you. Something surprisingly simple for him like taking you to a rooftop, park, botanical garden or even the zoo or a play. This way the two of you can spend time together and he will ask you out plain and simple towards the end of the evening, expressing his feelings for you as well for you can truly understand how he feels for you.Ā
Once the two of you begin dating, he is very affectionate, caring and attentive though he may not always seem like the best listener but when it comes to you, he pays close attention to the things you say. Because he is so attentive, he can be very good when it come to making plans for dates together or when it comes to getting you presents particularly for special occasions. Of course, because he does make and design clothes, he can often times design clothing for you whether for gifts or just randomly because he had an idea for you.Ā
He can make a point to design things he knows you with like whether itās making a replica of a dress or outfit from one of your favorite plays or movies or just listening to things you didnāt like about your clothes like maybe wishing for better pockets or wishing clothing fit your body or curves better.Ā
He can be kind of childish at times and even seem pretty impulsive and impatient particularly when heās bored, but he also has a very patient and understand side to him when it comes to you. Though he can often nudge you out of your comfort zone he is very reassuring and loving, he wonāt force you to open up to him or do things you arenāt ready to. You can be emotionally distant but he wonāt mind and will just see it more of a trust issue, like you are afraid to show a vulnerable side because youāve been hurt in the past.Ā
He will work to prove himself to you and show you how you can trust him and depend on him in any circumstances, heāll wait for you to open up and let him in on your own without him having to push you. He adores how creative you are because this means you are both creative and love the arts, he will love hearing your opinion on arts in general and takes a keen interest in what you like to write and will really show a curiosity in reading things you have written if you will let him. He will focus many dates on more artistic and creative ideas, going to the theater, museums, gardens, historical sites, sightseeing or hands on dates like taking dance lessons, pottery, art, paint classes and more.Ā
He does adore how much of a team player you are and how flexible you can be, he tends to see you as the more level headed and reasonable one. Which makes him really value your thoughts and point of view on different matters especially when it comes to important decisions or problems.Ā
When it comes to a holiday like Valentineās Day, he can go a little bit over board unless you insist, he doesnāt, but even then, you are still going to be showered quite a bit with gifts. However, his gifts arenāt just the typical chocolates and stuffed animals that most people like to do for Valentineās Day, instead he will plan a special get away perhaps a trip somewhere special or just to relax for the weekend. Along with this will come the meaningful gifts, things he knows you like and collect maybe itās jewelry, books, art supplies.Ā
There will also be a romantic dinner either out at a nice restaurant or at home which ever he thinks you will enjoy more, this will likely be before the two of you leave for the trip or while the two of you are away on the trip particularly if you would rather go out, this way he can take you out to a new fancy restaurant and really spoil you. Because he will plan a trip like this it wonāt simply be a one-day occasion to celebrate the holiday which he takes as a holiday to show you just how much he loves you itāll be a 2 to 3-day affair.Ā
Over all he is very caring, considerate and completely loyal to you and will constantly show you his love for you, he isnāt overly protective of you and doesnāt get jealous easily because he has complete trust you and the relationship the two of you have. He can be a bit insecure at times worrying that you deserve better or heās not good enough which is why he can go out of his way often to shower you with love and attention.Ā
However, he rarely openly talks about his own insecurities because he doesnāt like to feel like heās bringing you down and likes for you and the atmosphere to be cheerful. He does stand up for you and will always have your back no matter the situation and he really encourages you to do whatever you want to do in life and he will be behind you and support you the whole way.
ā° Headcanons Between you two
ā Ayame is very affectionate and loving with you and tends to even be quite romantic particularly when it comes to special occasions or holidays. But he can even randomly surprise you with gifts, from flowers, jewelry, things you collect etc.
ā Hates seeing you unhappy and can go quite out of his way to cheer you up, even if itās just by doing simple things like going for a walk, taking you out to eat, stargazing, or even just talking or telling you stories to try and make you laugh.
ā He is affectionate and not afraid to be the dominant one and smother you with attention and affection, in fact, he can even be very smothering at times because he does genuinely adore your attention and being near you but none the less, he can come across as clingy.
ā Tends to go out of his way to try and impress you or when you over even after the two of you begin dating, he will like surprising you and seeing your eyes light up when he gets you something special or plans something special for the two of you.
ā° Other Possible Matches
ā Yato
Yato absolutely adores you and makes it pretty obvious from the first time he meets you, heās not afraid to point out how cute you are. He finds your appearance adorable because of your short stature and pink hair and will even flat out compliment your appearance, telling you how cute you are nearly every time he sees you. Though his attitude towards you may not initially seem like heās interested in you romantically and chances are he probably wonāt have romantic feelings for you right from the start and instead treats you as a good friend. Though he can be rather intrusive and clingy when it comes to getting to know you and even more so once he does begin developing feelings for you. He can be affectionate with you but can also be kind of awkward and shy at other times, but he really cares deeply for you once he does develop feelings for you which makes him very understanding and attentive with you.
ā Momiji
Is very caring, friendly and attentive with you right from the start, though he does not show an immediate interest in you romantically. He just wants to get to know you and be friends with you at first, but it really doesnāt take very long for him to develop feelings for you. But at the same time he does not rush to turn things into a romantic relationship and instead will build a strong friendship with you first and kind of ask questions to see if you may be interested in him, but will not flat out ask you out or ask you directly if you like him in a romantic way. He will be very loving, encouraging and reassuring with you when the two of you are dating, he wants to bring out the best in you and help you with any and all problems and above all else cheer you up when you are down and constantly show you how much he loves you.
I tought something was wrong but didn't expect this much, a lot-lot hugs, sweetie! Btw, I'm not sure I will but may I request matchup if I did once before(I got into a new fandom recently and oooh)? Thank you and have a nice day and writing as well!š
Thank youā„ And this goes to everyoneĀ
if you have made a match up request before, Please feel free to request another match up for a different series I am 100% okay with that, like if I did a Naruto match up for you before but now you would like a Supernatural match up Iām happy to do that.Ā ā„
Hi I sent a matchup to you before your hiatus (btw o hope youāre doing ok xx). Just wondering if it was deleted? Thanks xx
Hello, All requests I had before and received while I was away have been deleted, I wiped the slate clean to start fresh.Ā
I welcome anyone to resend requests they made if they would like, and to make any match up requests now while match up requests are open for my Valentine Event.
Since Iāve returned in time for Valentineās Day I am opening up Match Up Requests until February 14th, This will be first come first serve until the 14th so I may not get to everyone.Ā
These will be regular match ups that include a description, headcanons and 2 other possible matches, with some extra Valentineās Day information.
Go to this Post to see directions and guidelines for making a Match Up request, please follow the steps and guidelines or I will not accept your request. If you have any questions please ask.
How would Loki (mcu) react to seeing his daughter (who knows how to defend herself) get hurt during a fight.
ā His reaction can be a bit different depending on how you got hurt and how badly you got hurt, like if you got hurt because you werenāt taking things as seriously as you should have or if you got hurt because the enemy is really that strong. And if it was a minor injury like a cut on the arm or a serious injury or life-threatening injury.
ā He really wonāt show much concern over minor injuries because not only does he know thereās nothing to worry about because youāll live but he also wonāt want to do anything to distract you during the fight, heāll want you to stay focused on what you are doing.
ā However, if he witnesses you get seriously injured whether itās life threatening or not he will take action, but it has to at least look like a serious enough injury where he feels like it will affect your fighting and prevent you from continuing or defending yourself, (like a deep stab wound to your abdomen or an injury that prevents you from using your arms or legs.)
ā Itās only when he realizes you wonāt be able to continue fighting that he will intervene to protect you, though depending on the person you are fighting and the circumstances how he intervenes can differ. Heāll also only intervene if he knows you could be killed, for example a life or death battle rather than just a match that stops once youāre unable to continue.
ā Though he will intervene he also wonāt put himself in direct harms way either unless he has absolutely no other choice, not because he doesnāt care but because heās smart enough to know that itās not going to help either of you if you both end up seriously injured.
ā He will not be concerned about avenging you immediately unless heās 100% certain he can take on the person that injured you fairly easily and quickly. His main concern will be getting you out of the situation, to safety and getting you cared for especially if your injury is potentially life threatening.
ā If he has to leave the person who injured you alive for now in order to make sure you are safe, heās okay with it, and perfectly fine with fleeing and regrouping rather than trying to take on an enemy heās not equipped to handle.
ā He really wonāt seem too worried or concerned about you because he will stay rather level headed rather than get emotional about the situation, even if it is a potentially life threatening injury heāll stay fairly calm and collected for your sake, and will be rather reassuring that you are okay and you will be fine.
ā He will be pretty focused on keeping you calm and relaxed especially if you are upset or angry with him for intervening, because heāll insist that pulling back and regrouping to come up with a better strategy is in the best interest of you and anyone else on your side involved.
Hey! Can I request Kakashi having an apprentice of his own like Tsunade and Jiraiya? Especially between the break of Naruto and Shippuden? Would he continue their bond well into Shippuden or let her go once Team Kakashi starts to form?
ā He will not just let you go once he starts Team Kakashi, not only because he wonāt want to but because heāll want to know how you are doing and progressing. But he will distance himself more because he will see this as a time for you to spread your wings and make your own way and he will not want to crowd you or baby you.
ā But at the same time, he makes it fairly clear that you can always come to him if you have problems or questions or help with anything. Even if you just want to talk and tell him about your own adventures and progress, heāll like hearing about things you are learning and things youāve done.
ā The relationship between you and Kakashi will turn more from an apprentice and teacher to a friendship, because he will not try to tell you how to do things or what you should do and may even tease you a bit and give you a hard time now and then but this is more in playful and encouraging way. (This can be rather similar to how he acts towards Iruka or Yamato.)
ā Heāll even encourage you to meet his team or show interest in introducing you to them, even including you in training exercises and missions if you are interested. But at the same time he will not include you in every aspect and will want you to branch out and find your own way rather then cling to him.
ā„ Thank you so much, I am very happy to be back and itās been really touching to know people are glad Iām back and missed me. Itās very heart warmingĀ ā„ā„
Girl I was so worried and wondering what happened to you. I'm so sorry about everything you went through for these past few months. If you ever need any other breaks then feel free to take as much as you want. I imagine this must be really difficult but we really love, believe in, and support you! ā¤ļø
ā„ Thank you, Sorry for worrying you and Iām really glad to be back and writing again, Iāve really missed writing. Itās okay, Iām a big believer in everything that happens negative or positive just shapes us into who weāre suppose to be. It is really nice to know that thereās kind people like you on here that have been so supportive and caring since Iāve returned. I really appreciate it.Ā ā„ā„
Hey friend! Hope all is going well for you! I'm sorry if I'm blowing up your ask box, but I was wondering if I could have some Headcanons of Sabo realizing he's in love with his s/o, and how he would go about confessing, please? I appreciate you and this amazing blog! Stay stellar! š
ā It can actually take him quite some time to realize that heās in love with you in a romantic way, because he will love and care about you a lot as a friend and ally. But he wonāt realize he loves you more than that until he realizes he doesnāt see a future without you in it.
ā When he does realize that heās in love with you he can be fairly shy about it and can become awkward and embarrassed around you all of a sudden. Which can really catch your attention because it will be quite out of character for him for how youāve known him to behave before. He may even seem a bit panicked especially if you move closer to him.
ā If you ask him whatās wrong or point out his strange behavior, he can be really quick to dismiss it like nothing is out of the ordinary, and maybe itās just your imagination. He may even make a point to get away from you for awhile or distance himself from you for a bit for he can confront his feelings for you on his own first and gather his thoughts.
ā He wonāt take too long to decide to confess his feelings for you because he wonāt be able to act like himself until he tells you how he feels, and heāll need to know what you think, how you feel and what this means for the future between the two of you.
ā This means itās likely that it will only be a few hours between him realizing he loves you and him confessing his feelings to you. He wonāt really wait for the right moment heāll just wait until heās calmed down and is ready to talk to you about his feelings.
ā Heāll approach you in a rather calm manner and ask to talk to you, wanting to go for a walk or somewhere outside where the two of you can be alone, the outskirts of a town, a roof top. Whatever is the closest or most secluded because he will not want an audience when he talks to you about how he feels.
ā He wonāt seem as embarrassed or awkward anymore though he may seem slightly nervous or hesitant when talking, as though he doesnāt know exactly where to start or what the right words are to say to you. Questioning him can make him trip up on his words and confess his feelings in a much more blunt and direct way, kind of just blurting it out suddenly.
ā Once he does confess his feelings, he will go rather quiet and wait for you to respond, he wonāt rush you to talk or give him an answer either. Though he may comment on it being awkward if you stay silent for too long, beginning to worry that you donāt feel the same way towards him at all.
ā He will relax a lot and practically return to normal if you return his feelings and love him in a romantic way as well, even expressing how nervous he was and how relieved he is to hear you say it.
ā Though even if you do not return his feelings he is understanding and wonāt be upset with you, heāll want to maintain a friendship with you and hopes things wonāt be awkward between the two of you because of him.
Headcanons for Roy Mustang having an S/O who's also in the military but is of a higher rank than him?
ā Can occasionally seem a bit jealous that you are of a higher rank than him but this is more in a teasing manner rather than being seriously jealous of you. Teasing you for having more work to do or more paper work than him.
ā However, he actually is proud of you for being a higher rank because it does show that youāve worked hard, take things seriously and care about changing things. Especially if your ideas and opinions are close to his.
ā He can spur on some friendly competition with you if you also have your eyes on the top rank, but even if you donāt and are comfortable with your current position he can encourage you to shoot higher because heāll see you as a strong asset/ally within the military.
ā Does keep the relationship quiet and will not like for the relationship to be made public, preferring to keep the news of the relationship just between the two of you or his inner circle. Not only to keep things professional but to keep you safe as well.
ā Tends to bounce a lot of ideas and thoughts off of you from serious work topics to completely random thoughts especially when heās bored or wanting your attention. But he really does trust you a lot and values your judgement on work matters.
ā He is protective over you but he treats you as an equal when it comes to dangerous situations because he trusts your skills and abilities. Heās not going to hide things from you or exclude you from situations just because theyāre going to be dangerous.
ā But he is very cautious when it comes to dangerous situations and will not let you do anything irrational or spontaneous, heāll want things done in a very well planned out way to minimize any possibility of you or anyone else he cares about getting hurt.
ā He typically doesnāt treat you like an S/O in public or at work because he does want to keep the relationship under wraps but he will do romantic things for you on occasion like send you flowers or take you out for lunch or dinner, but all under the idea of being work related rather than romantic.
ā Is really only affection and physical with you when the two of you are alone at home behind closed doors, which isnāt all that often either because he wonāt want to live together incase anyone were to find out. He also wonāt want you or him visiting each other at your homes too frequently incase people are watching the two of you.
ā This means the relationship wonāt be too affectionate or like the typical relationship at all, but when the two of you are alone together he will really try to make up for not being able to be affectionate with you every day.
