#sbproblems

[spoonfullasugaaa]

Competition

So a few months ago I pull up at whale daddy’s house. 2 hour drive to upstate NY. I get there looking amazing. Hair done, natural beat, waist on snatch, I’m ready to play. I know what to expect; we have the same routine most days. He’s thirsty and misses me. Of course he wants to undress me as soon as I get there. Like I said, I know the routine. He leads me to my room and we shower together in this huge Russian shower he had custom made. Okay great, hair and makeup are kinda fucked, since water sprays out of every fucking surface imaginable in there, but men aren’t paying attention and at this point he still thinks I look amazing.

Anyway, we get in bed, and this man starts chatting to me about how in the month and a half that we haven’t seen each other, he’s gone to Europe and bought out every fucking seat on the London Eye so he can fuck some girl he’s met on SA. You guys know me, I’m cute as hell and confident. My facial expression stays flirty and says “idc who you’ve been fucking, you’re here with me now and paying for it :) ” He sees all of this, but this isn’t the point of the story. This man proceeds to tell me that she did something different to him. She ate his ass 500 feet in the air on this damn ferris wheel. 

I’m still giving the “great congratulations, can we get on with fucking” face because I honestly do not care about anything he’s doing if it’s not giving me coins. We’re both naked on the bed ready to fuck at this point. He then proceeds to flip over, and  TELL me to eat his ass lmmmmffffaaaaaoooo!!! 

MEEEE??? Eat your 60 year old asshole???? GTFOH. I flipped his ass right back over and was like “umm no I’m not really comfortable with that.” He then proceeds to tell me it’s fine and that we won’t do anything I’m uncomfortable with. Then he says, “I’ve never fucked your ass before let’s do that.” At this point this man is really trying me because in the year we’ve known each other we have never done either of those things. I do not do anal hunty, and I’m sure he knows this. He was definitely trying me for no fucking reason.

So we fucked like usual, he apple pays me my allowance, and we enjoy the rest of our time together as usual. I hit him up next month, (as we do monthly meetings) and this man proceeds to tell me he’s “COMMITTED” for the holiday months, and that he’ll see me in February. This man better go tf head and stop playing with me.

So at this point, February is around the corner. What do you guys think I should do? Am I eating ass next visit?! I really am not trying to do that at all. But we have been dating for a year, he’s taken me on luxury trips and really helped me out financially. I want to keep him interested, as he’s my only whale daddy at the moment. WWJD!!?

xoxo,

Spoonfull

[sweetbrownsugar007]

Haven’t been active in forever .

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23.Jan.2020

[redpixie71-blog]

New year....new suggestions?

Here we go 2018....I am a few days away from another birthday and quite discouraged....I have been at this SB thing for several years with absolutely no luck. I read blogs, make profiles..tweak those profiles over and over to no avail. I take really good care of my appeearance too, is it my location? My age? My looks or personality? Its driving me bonkers! Would anyone be obliged to being my mentor? I won't say I'm desperate...but I'm close

[diamondparadice-blog]

Can someone for the life of me help me understand why the entire fuck there are so many salt daddies on SA.. Like the last 2 dates I’ve been on all they truly wanted was a quick hook up… That’s what tinder is for, what the fuck! lol i’m so tight because i’m tired of getting all cute and wasting gas when I can be in my bed smoking a blunt and watching Netflix 😪

[bellasugarxx-blog]

Why aren’t you getting $10k allowance per SD?

I haven’t finished How to get the Guy by Matthew Hussey, which I will soon and I will do a TLDR post, but I came across something so true that I would like to share with you guys ASAP:

Many SBs are on SD sites (eg: SA, SD, AM, Tinder et al.) and they have a fantastic profile, gorgeous pictures, but they’re not getting any great responses from real sugar daddies, just salts or splenda. At the end, most of the SBs just settled for less. Why? Do we really need to settle?

We are all looking for THE sugar that will give us that lifestyle that we have always wanted - the dream allowance, Birkins, Bentley, Jimmy Choos, a grand collection from Cartier etc whatever that tickles your fancy - but are we all really looking? Are we actually doing something by only creating a fantastic profile and waiting for POTs to message us?

The book (that has nothing to do with sugar, just men) encourages us to not wait. Strike a conversation with everyone, then filter guys from there. I think it is applicable to the sugar world. You want the dream allowance? Get off your butt and start striking conversations with POTs instead of waiting for it to fall on your lap. The three big filters that the book described, can be used in the sugar world really well too.

For instance - get everyone into your first filter - talk to everyone regardless of what amount they listed their salary and net worth on their profiles. Note: It’s an online profile. 9 out of 10 times the amounts listed are understated (yes, it’s possible. My whale daddy understated his), exaggerated or fake. Out of 100, maybe approx 20 you have chemistry with and they like you too. That’s when the second filter sets in - find out if the guys are genuine - not flakes, salts or rapists et al. Within those 20, there would be approx 5 that fits the sugar profile. That’s when the last filter fits in - are they on the same page as you when it comes to an arrangement (financial and physical agreements) and are they really who they say they are (net worth & annual salary). 

There might not be anyone coming out of the last filter. Its okay, try again. Also, whatever filter you would like to set on what stage, it’s up to you. You want the best out of the best for yourself, not some salt that’s wasting your precious time. By doing this, you are already ahead of the game because most of the SB wanna-bes out there will be sitting on their ass waiting for some rich SD to message them just because they think they are beautiful. 

Sorry to pop your bubble but have you been in tumblr? There’s plenty of beautiful ladies out there! So why you? 

To win the game, you have to actually play the game.

[thesugarisland]

I feel as if I am dealing with a child. If you haven't done anything for me, do not expect anything from me. Men really get on my nerves.