Hey. Hey you. Yes, you.
Victims do not owe you an explanation to how they respond to trauma. Victims do not owe you anything. You do not owe victims anything but support. Victims do not have to justify THEIR response to THEIR trauma EVER. If it is harmful/hateful but not non-consensually acted upon, then they do not owe you SHIT
I am so TIRED of seeing others act so fucking righteous when they talk about how certain reactions to PTSD or trauma are wrong. You don’t fucking know what they’ve been through???? Each situation is different, each reaction is different, there is NOT a singular “right” way to respond to whatever happened.
Yes, this ALSO applies to transharmful and transhateful IDs (i fear yall aren’t ready for that yet,) but this is ALSO in general.
VICTIMS DON’T OWE ANYONE AN EXPLANATION OR JUSTIFICATION. IT IS ONLY DEEMED “WRONG” WHEN IT IS JUSTIFIABLY OVERALL HARMFUL TO NON-CONSENTING PARTIES.


















