May 13, 2020
Safety Shaming
Ok but I’m so over submissives telling their partner to stop asking if they’re okay during scenes because it “ruins the mood.” My Daddy had a lot of experiences like this and I’ve listened to him talk about how there’s pressure to literally not make sure your partner is comfortable and happy in compromising situations because it’s “unsexy” ???What kind of trade off is that?
To me, safety shaming is a red flag. Being a Dom and having the responsibility of someone else’s health and safety is a fuckton of work. If you don’t like it, you can go find yourself one of the millions of toxic people out there, Lindsey.
