Hi. so, second parent-to-be here.
I really enjoy your family bee blerbs. And i see you have a kid of your own. Do you have any pointers for someone whos struggling with their own pregnant partner?
I LOVE HER I REALLY DO!!! Its just been tough.
Time to pull up my big-sister pants.
Hi, Parent-To-Be!
I understand that it can be tough. I'm assuming there's been morning-sickness, heartburn, weight loss, sleeping problems, high blood pressure, tachy or brady cardia, and/or anything else. None of that is fun for the pregnant mom, and it sucks as the second parent because there really isn't anything you can do.
But there are things you can do! If you want to help your partner, try to make her comfortable. Buy a maternity pillow or the baby cradle belt depending how far along she is. If she says she feels like she has a rock in her stomach or is always full, Tums. She probably has heartburn showing in a weird way.
Now, for you. You need to be able to take a break and not take things personally. Hormones are driving your partner right now. Pregnancy brain is real. It's not just a "Haha! Wife is pregnant and doing ball and chain things". No, it's a real thing. Same with nesting.
If she snaps at you or yells at you, separate yourself from the situation. Take a walk and take a moment to clear your head. When you are able to meet with clear heads, talk things out.
You can't help her or the baby when they arrive if you are not at 100%. Just remember that. So take time for yourself.
Thank you so much for reaching out on my Bee Family blurbs. It's also a big honor that you're asking me for advice. Every person and relationship is different, though. So please keep that in mind.
I hope things work out for you both. Best of luck and happy baby!











