I'm a 36-year-old white cis male living in North America. I’m a switch who’s mainly into humiliation — giving or receiving. I'm much more experienced as a Dom, but I'm looking to explore my submissive side on this account.
Erotic humiliation is the only thing that really excites me. I'm mostly straight, but if you get me horny and submissive enough the idea of being made to do things that I normally wouldn't to emasculate me is kind of hot because of how humiliating it is. 😳🫣
Humiliation is just about the only thing that truly and deeply turns me on, and there is nothing I find more humiliating than cuckolding... ESPECIALLY interracial cuckolding. There is something so incredibly shameful and degrading about being denied sexual access to a pretty girl; it hurts but excites me so much to have a girl reject me after I worship Her like a Goddess, only to be made to watch while my Goddess is objectified, manhandled, roughly fucked and ruined by Dominant Alpha Black Men. 👸🏼🤴🏿
Please help to take my pride as a privileged Cis-Hetero white boy and have it completely demolished before my eyes... make me addicted to the shame by allowing that self-destruction to be my only source of pleasure, brainwashing me into your obedient pathetic beta bitch whiteboy loser cuck... 🌶🥵🔥
“Elegance, down to earth... ready to mingle and very ambitious” - Elegant is the word I think you’re looking for.
“Calm,Confident and humble,trustworthy,Charismatic,insightful,
honest and hardworking,Genuine,Atruistic,passionate and responsible.” - Look into spaces, where capital letters belong, and spell check.
“The Man! The Life! The Music!” - I feel that maybe this is a test. Like it’s from a movie and if you know the quote you win bonus points with him. That’s the only explanation for this that I’ll accept.
“Just ask me and I will tell you all about me. Pointless to write it here.” - This type is my personal favorite. It’s not pointless. In fact, that’s EXACTLY THE POINT! smh.
Putting Your Resume into Context with a Self-summary
It's here, the moment so many interviewees dread. The moment when you're asked: "So, tell me about yourself."
They dread it because they don't see what you see: the huge opportunity to present yourself in the best possible light to the hiring manager. This is your big chance to tell them:
Why you're so great
What you like doing
Why you're perfect for this job
...all in one or two sentences! Today, we're going to go over the perfect answer to "So, tell me about yourself," and develop the awesome skill of putting your resume into context with a strong self-summary.
First, Some Context for You
Here's what the hiring manager sees when they view your resume:
A big blob of words. There may be some nice words in there that the hiring manager might like. Some even may match the job description. But...ummm...what do they mean all together?
What They're Really Asking
When a hiring manager says "Tell me about yourself," they're looking for the big picture -- you summed up in one sentence.
Now, let's take a moment to go over what they're not asking about you:
where you live
how many pets you have
what you like to eat
They're looking for details on the specific part of your life that pertains to what they want you to help them with. Now is not the time to unleash your autobiography. Keep it work-centric.
The Self-Summary -- A Clear Answer Structure
The best answers sound like the following sentence:
"If you look at my career, the following themes jump out: 1, 2, 3."
This is called a self-summary. It makes your resume easily digestible by pulling out the specific themes you want to show off, positions your experience as relevant, and shows that you can communicate persuasively and efficiently. The self-summary is the first step in building a framework. It's the peg onto which you'll hang all of the other information about yourself that will show you're the best candidate for the job.
Important tip: Make sure items 1, 2, and 3 in your self-summary correspond to qualities the hiring manager actually said they wanted in their job description!
For Example...
Let's revisit the graphic design job I discussed in my post on job-specific research. It required the top three qualities in a candidate:
A Photoshop/InDesign/Illustrator expert who can make magazine layouts, ebooks, emails, and ESPECIALLY PowerPoint presentations (they mention that twice!)
Project-management skills that mean you’ll be able to get some of that stuff professionally printed
Team player who will get ideas and feedback from the rest of the team and not have an attitude about it. This is a service role, where people will tell you what they need, and you will have to do it. If you don’t like that type of job, you should decline the interview.
So you would probably want your self-summary to sound like this:
"If you look at my career, the following themes jump out: (1) a passion for making amazing presentations and other documents with Photoshop/InDesign/Illustrator, (2) excellent project-management skills, and (3) a collaborative work-style."
Then pause. Congratulations, you've conquered the most feared open-ended question!
A good interviewer will explore each of the themes you highlighted in your self-summary. I'll describe how to uncover and discuss your success stories in a later post so you can really shine.
So the new blog is starting to look pretty good just thought it was missing a little text. So why don't I tell you about myself, my name is Brad and I am from Boston Massachusetts. I like to skate and love seeing epic skating videos and such. So, now you know little... very little.. about me. lol I also have a somewhat short attention span and can't type good summaries apparently.. how bout this, ask me anything.
