Has it already been more than a year since Sungmin and Kangin took a hiatus on SJ activities? And you know what, honestly, I'm over it. The issues Imean. It doesn't make sense to me anymore. You know that feeling you get when you're angry, disappointed or hurt over something and then once those negative feelings subsided and you're back to your sane state you just go like, 'WTF did just happened?'. You know that saying, 'Don't make a decision when you're mad' or 'Don't spit out words that you can't take back'. Some ELFs just did the exact opposite of that when the issues came out. Personally, I honestly don't have anything against Sungmin getting married. I've always been that kind of fan that supports her idol's decision as long as they're happy. So I really do think it's just unfair for Sungmin to take a break from SJ just because he got married. It's ridiculous. Some ELFs need to let the reality of all SJ members getting married one of these days sink in. As for Kangin, I admit, I was disappointed. I know i'm not the only one. What happened was undesirable and was his fault, yes, but I think it's already been so long and I believe he've already paid for what had happened and I hopefully believe that he learned his lessons. Am I willing to give him a third chance? Well, I think yes. It's maybe because I became an elf during that time when he was serving in the military. i wasn't there when his first DUI happened. So it was easier for me to accept him when he came back and maybe that's why I'm fine with giving him a 'third' chance. But all of this just boils down to the one and only reason that as an ELF, I wanted SJ to stay together just the same. It may seem a delusional wish and maybe even if i know that it might hurt me at some point, I'm still gonna hold on to it. I'm gonna be okay.
