Learn your priorities
It seems like lots of times, nice people are the ones that are at the bottom of other people's list of priorities. This is especially relevant with people in relationships (romantic and platonic). Lots of people assume they should put the people that have hurt or left them at the top of their list of priorities while they put the people that have stuck with them through thick and thin near the bottom of that list. They think that they need to put extra effort into the toxic relationships because they think that will be a way to where they won't lose them again, but do they ever think that the people that don't hurt them have feelings too? How do they think their true friends feel about being put on the backburner while the people that left them are the ones they are putting all their effort into? The point I'm trying to make with this post is that the people that have hurt you need to earn their way back up to the top part of your list of priorities, and you need to keep the people that truly care about you at the top of your list of priorities always. Even though your true friends won't complain about being put near the bottom of your list of priorities, you still need to think about how they feel because someday, you might lose them, and they won't come back to you like your toxic friends have
