#sfw rules

[sxnriodolly]

a reminder to all littles, flips and caregivers:

if you (as a cg or flip) give your little a rule or punishment that they’re not comfortable with or worried about, they shouldn’t have to comply.

if you (as a little or flip) force your cg to give you a rule/punishment that they aren’t comfortable with or worried about, they shouldn’t have to enforce it.

rules and punishments are a two way streak and everyone involved should be comfortable with it.

an example; a very common rule is for a little to have a bedtime, and a very common punishment is an early bedtime. my little is not comfortable with bedtimes and it makes her anxious. i respect that as it’s her boundary.

boundaries should not be pushed or broken.

ig - babiee_duckiee

[sleepiestprincess]

💖💖My Rules!💖💖

My Daddy and I worked together on a list of rules/helpfuls for me and I drew it out with my markers 💖💖💖

(Note: I have depression and anxiety, and I often forget to eat and take care of myself. My boyfriend and I agreed on these rules as a way to help me with things like that. It is absolutely my choice. We also have rules for him to help him with things, to make it fair. #4 is definitely there to tease me though 😝)

[character-corner]

I know it's a little long but everyone please read this

What does SFW mean on this Blog?

I feel kind of weird writing this, but I feel like it would be helpful to know what I am and am not willing to write just so it’s clear and there are no awkward situations. Thankfully, everyone has been pretty respectful of the rules of the blog so far (and I’m so thankful for that) but I still would like to have guidelines in place just in case. It's something I've been wanting to do for a while now just for my own peace of mind.

Kissing

I’m fine with pretty much all kissing as long as it doesn’t get overly descriptive.

Kissing should be kept to areas above the waist and away from “private” areas.

I think it’s best to stay away from any kind of “sensual” licking, sucking, or biting.

Touching

All touching should be kept above clothing, although if a hand sneaks under a shirt to touch a back or tummy once in a while I’ll turn a blind eye.

Like kissing, hands should stay away from “sexual” areas. Basically from the waist up and from the thighs down is okay. (For females, I’m gonna ask that we stay away from the chest as well)

Light touches, caressing, and massaging are fine, as well as playful pinching, poking, or squeezing.

Language

I’m fine with flirting, teasing, and even slightly suggestive humor or comments, but nothing too heavy or descriptive please.

Light cursing or swearing is also fine but try not to be too aggressive with it.

Cuddling

I’m all for snuggling up and cuddling and being close to your character.

Sitting in each other’s laps is fine by me and pretty much any kind of cuddling.

I’m okay with sleepovers with your character but obviously you need to follow all the rules above.

Nudity

Nobody is allowed to be naked. Please keep your clothes on!

I suppose guys can be shirtless and of course bathing suits are okay.

Miscellaneous

The characters are here to give you comfort when you need it, but that might bring up some topics that could be triggering for other people. Please add trigger/content warnings to your posts and do your best to stay away from really heavy topics out of respect for other people.

I’m not against people bringing up drinking/smoking as long as they are over the age of 18 both in your real life and in the scenario. (I will check) But again, please add content warnings to your post.

I ask that both you and your character refrain from mentioning anything about committing illegal acts (there are some exceptions to this especially in hero/villain scenarios) or using illegal substances. I just want this to be a safe space for everyone.

If any of the rules don’t make sense, you want me to adjust some wording, or you have any questions at all, please feel free to DM me so we can talk about it.

[14daddyslittlegirl14-blog]

SFW Rules

1. Brush your hair and teeth, and wash your face when you wake up

2. Make sure you eat three meals, two at the least, every day.

3. Always tell your caregiver if and when you’re going somewhere, and when you get back, they worry about you.

4. Go potty when you need to, don’t wait until you HAVE to go, it’s not good for your body.

5. Drink water as often as possible

6. Put away messes before going out or to sleep.

7. Be in bed by midnight, and attempting to sleep by 1am (considering it’s still summer for those of us with school coming up, we shouldn’t be up too late or we won’t be able to fix out schedule in time for school)

8. Tell your caregiver if you’re sad/anxious/need or want something/ or generally unhappy. They need to know if you’re not okay, and how to help.

9. Give your CG kisses and love as much as possible, whether it be in person or virtual.

10. Use whatever may help you be little whenever possible. Pacis, stuffies, books, blankets, etc. Especially if they help you sleep or feel happy and calm.

11. Listen to your CG, they know what’s best. (Unless it makes you uncomfortable or awkward)

12. Brush your hair and teeth before bed too!

13. No self harm, if you feel as if you want to, you tell your CG immediately no matter what.

14. Remember your manners “please” “thank you” “yes ___” “no __”

15. Be honest/truthful. Unless it’s for good things like hiding surprises!