#sgalove

[skinnyproblems]

I hate when people tell me sexistly that guys won't date me because I have small breasts. I'm bisexual and I love small breasts, that's why I prefer women with small breasts or guys with undeveloped but skinny chests (no fat or pecs). Like stop with the heterosexism preferences aren't universal. If someone can't worship my tiny breasts they are not worth my time to date. I deserve only love!

If someone can’t worship my tiny breasts they are not worth my time to date.

Just perfect. Lol

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So today I got this comment from a friend telling me that another friend (male) said that nobody would ever want to fuck me because I am a flat pole and that Im only bones and skin or something like that. I wasn't shocked at all, it's nothing that ive haven't heard before and it doesn't afect me because I know it's not true. My question is what can I tell him back?

I am not even infuriated by men who think that women owe them their bodies, to merely be sexually pleasing. It just saddens me because they are the ones who will end up struggling to be in long-lasting, mature relationships all because all they wanted was a sexual object.

Give him three points:

Nobody wants to f*** him anyway with that stinking attitude.

Also, my existence is not based on solely to be f***’d with anyway. That’s none of your business, it doesn’t depreciate my worth. But you know what depreciates a person’s worth? Stupidity. Not being skinny.

I think I’d be more hurt if he said no one would love me if I was only bones and skin. I’d rather be loved, appreciated, than simply f***’d. It doesn’t make me feel better as a person if an immature guy tells me because of my small assets, I am not going to appeal to the sexual tendencies of a guy. In fact, I’m glad. I want to appeal to his mind, and heart, not his penis.

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Tbh I hate when fat or curvy women say "at least i have something he can grab" wtf! No, you dont need to be grabbed by a boy to love yourself

Relevant.

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(To the anon about her guy friend making a comment about her body). I honestly find it hilarious how guys think that makes them funny or cool. Because who wants to date a guy who says rude and demeaning things like that? I also think guys show off around their guy friends to look more manly or masculine, but I seriously don't understand the appeal of being a complete asshole. Can any guys tell me why certain guys act like that?

Exactly, it’s such a put off. There’s no appeal in that, but the girls on whose side the compliment is on are clearly enjoying it.

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I LITERALLY DONT UNDERSTAND SKINNY SHAMING, FAT SHAMING, OR BODY SHAMING IN GENERAL. IF YOU DONT LIKE MY BODY THEN OH WELL, SORRY TO DISAPPOINT YOU BUT ITS NOT LIKE I WAS MADE ESPECIALLY/SPECIFICALLY FOR YOU. OBVIOUSLY I LACK BODILY THINGS THAT A LOT OF GUYS WOULD DEEM AS ATTRACTIVE BUT THEN WHY IS IT NECESSARY TO MAKE COMMENTS ABOUT IT? I already know and I have trouble dealing with it so thanks for making it worse.

YOU ARE NOT DISAPPOINTING OR “LACKING” ANYTHING. He’s the kind of guy that NO woman should go out with anyway - if he is going to make immature comments. Never insult my friend’s to benefit me. I would not laugh. We are all beautiful, and we don’t live to please your objectified vision. I’ll pass.

THIS IS YOUR BODY. IT IS DAMN FREAKIN’ BEAUTIFUL. YOU ARE A SLIM BEAUTIFUL WOMAN AND THERE IS A GUY OUT THERE WHO WILL FALL IN LOVE WITH EVERY INCH OF YOU. Some guys objectify women so much “three things” its ridiculous but yet those girls laugh along easily.

[skinnyproblems]

For any girls not thinking any guys like skinny or thin girls, trust me they love em. You'll find that just as many guys who love the curves, loves girls they can hold and even pin down ;) no matter what size or color you are, someone's got a kink for it. Trust me

Thank you so much for your lovely message! ^_^ Kinky message! ha

I hope the girls who think there aren’t any guys that are into skinny girls, can see this.

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"Welll.... You're really skinny, but your face is pretty and you're nice " Like I feel like it's a positive and negative thing when I hear stuff like that. Like they don't actually find me attractive.

If any guy says that to any girl, even in the form of ‘'Well… You're really fat, but your face is pretty and you’re nice.” he is silly and not worth your attention. If that doesn’t sound right, then the other doesn’t either. I can’t say to him, ”Well… you’re really fat, but your face is handsome and you’re nice.” He wouldn’t like that, so what sort of power does he have to be able to blurt out such a rude comment?

It’s a completely negative thing because:

- What does my size/weight have to do with my beauty?- Why shouldn’t it (if I wanted it to)? What’s wrong with my skinnyness? If that bothers you, then yeah sorry, YOU bother me.- My face is pretty and I’m nice?`/

Any other silly comments left so I know how to properly exit this conversation and stop any potential likeability for you? 

That’s not how any guy you would want to be with, should speak to you. I really hope you value yourself better than that. ON TO THE NEXT, girlfriend :)

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To the other skinny girls out there, I hear guys say that they know they're really into my personality because I don't have the tits or ass. But like, are there any guys who actually DO like skinny girls? Or is it always

Yes, there are! Like that previous anon said, when she lost weight she experienced that men viewed her less as a ‘piece of meat’ and the focus became more about her personality. And her boyfriend loves her bones!