*pops into ur ask* do da odds for the valentine's thingy *waves and leaves*
1:Do you have a crush at the moment?
3:Longest relationship you've ever been in?
5 years, 3 months, and 7 days.
5:How is your relationship with your ex?
First Ex- well I call her "She who must not be named" among friends cause that's how I wish it to remain.
Second Ex- we don't hate each other? We don't talk either, kinda just went our own way.
Third Ex (the longest relationship above) - Severed all contact for the best.
....ok soo first ex and I were fighting a LOT...and well the relationship was dying/dead/undecided due to the joys of 2007 and internet communication being what it was, apparently in her eyes I did because I believed we had broken up and started dating gf 2, she found out and freaked. Me and GF2 dated for the summer of 07 and I went and did dumb thing broke up with her and went back to ex 1 for reasons...soooo honestly /I/ say no, she said yes. So I'll go with from a certain point of view? Other than that- no
9:What's the most important part of a relationship?
there is not just ONE thing, it's a mix of everything. I'd say top few are1- when life hits you both with the heavy shit you don't let it get you two down. You remember the two of you are each other's pillar to lean on when it gets bad. Help each other through the worst, don't let petty things become criminal offenses.
2- Communication and constantly repeating this everytime things (no matter how small they seem) change in your life. This can prevent the worst of things snowballing into disaster cause you didn't speak and they didn't know something.
3- Honestly, some form or another of intimacy. Not restricted to sex, but like there has to be more than not times you both can look back and say you guys have enough memories that fill you both with as much butterflies as the day you first met because they were just good times. Either laying on the couch drinking soda from wine glasses and watching a disney movie and pushing one of you off the couch for "ruining the moment by pointing out it's your first cute couple movie date." or something like taking a day each week to just do stuff together.
11:When you are dating someone do you believe in going on "breaks"?
I don't, because if something "requires a break" then maybe the relationship isn't strong enough to REALLY sustain the big things that'd do more than require a "break" to get passed.
13:What's one thing you regret saying/doing in a previous relationship?
a lot actually and honestly I rather not talk about it cause it'd become a book
15:Do you believe in the phrase "age is just a number"?
if you're under 18 it's a lot more than a number, if you're over and so is your partner, honestly I'm not gonna really give input in your relationships. For me, I've noticed the age does seem to garter (not always) certain "Types" of maturity/immaturity/etc
17:Do you believe it's possible to fall in love on the internet?
I've seen a lot more examples of it working out so yes. Do I say it's better than other ways- no. I'm just saying in my experience I've seen SO MANY relationships start this way and go further than others. It takes a lot of resilience, resolve, dedication, and all that jazz to make those work.
19:How do you know it's time to end a relationship?
When you start sabotaging each other, when you realize you and your SO are not like the couple friends you have where they are genuinely happy about small things anymore, when it becomes a chore to feel happy about where you are? The second you wonder how better you'd be without them?
It's not a simple answer but the best way I can think is when you think you can't do it anymore.
21:Do you think people who have dated can stay friends?
I've seen it work. I haven't had it happen where the friendships LASTS but I have seen it work out. It depends on how the two end, why they ended, and all that.
23:How many relationships have you had?
I'm going on relationships that lasted more than 6 months for this- 4 (didn't list the VERY first one above in the earlier question cause we never SAID we were dating but did stuff as if we were a couple, and I was a freshmen and she was a 7th grader so we were not really sure what to do in a relationship yet lol it was just kissing, holding hands, hanging out together and with friends at the bowling alley and a lot of awkward 2nd bases
25:Do you believe love can conquer all things?
27:If you could go back in time and give yourself one piece of advice about dating what would it be?
"Okay...stay with Kate, don't screw that up...seriously DON'T SCREW IT UP, let it run it's natural course. If things DO end, don't let it kill you, if your BEST FRIENDS tell you that someone is not good for you- listen to them, don't take the "I'm miserable over not being with someone so I know everything." it's gonna fuck you over dude. Also by avoiding that logic I am telling you this- go to *insert a certain house* you go by it all the time, talk to the girl playing with her sisters in the driveway, get to know her. She is gonna be one of the BEST people you'll ever meet, let that develop on it's own to whatever it may be, but don't screw that up either, she is probably one of your saving graces. Oh and also- for the LOVE OF GOD, when you're like you know- FIRST trying stuff- ASK HER WHAT SHE LIKES...ignore your guy friends..they know jack shit.
29:What do you notice first about another person?
Eyes, voice and figure (I just do the whole looking up and down a person starting at the eyes and then down and back up it's habit more than preference)
31:Would it bother you if your partner suffered from any mental illness?
not intentionally, if it caused our relationship to develop problems I'd be a bit frustrated but not AT her.
33:Do you want to get married one day?
35:Could you be in a relationship without sex?
I honestly don't know, I want to say yes and sound like I'm THAT understanding, but this was an issue in the past so I can't say with certainty.
37:What's more important: Looks or personality?
They are equally important, if you're not physically attracted, the personality is only doing half the attracting.
39:Have you ever given anyone/received roses?
yeahhhh was a weekly thing at one point, got them before leaving work each week, and brought them to her when I went to see her that night.
41:What's your imagination of a "perfect date"?
mmmm world domination sounds nice. but seeing as that's an acquired taste I'd say I dunno I never really "did dates" growing up, my FIRST real one lol was my ex's prom 2 days after we started dating lol
43:What's more important: Your partner or your friends?
equally as important but in different ways, as well as the fact that my partner IS my friend as well as partner
45:Could you imagine to date one of your current friends?
uhhhhh to save space...I'm gonna say no our relationships I think are perfect how they are.
47:Which "famous couple" is your favorite?
define famous cause like for me, I look to lolrenaynay and gassymexican as like PERFECT couple (but I'm only seeing parts of it soooo I know what I see isn't all of it)
49:Have you ever broken someone's heart?
51:Would you rather date someone who's rich but a douchebag or someone who's poor but a nice guy?
can I go for middle like not poor but my level of douchyness but not rich where it becomes gold digging?
53:Are you jealous of couples when you're single?
nahh they earned their love, I can't find it in me to wanna strip them of it.
55:Would you consider yourself "clingy", "overly attached" or "jealous"?
one of my biggest flaws that I work hard to suppress and wipe out
57:Do you think it's silly to consider suicide because of a broken heart?
honestly I do because I've been there and I obviously didn't do it but when I thought about it afterward I realized how just dumb it was.
59:Have you ever forgotten important dates like your partner's birthday or your anniversary?nope I was good with that shit. it's EVERYONE ELSE's stuff I forget
61:Who's more important: Your partner or your family?
Partner becomes family sooo yeah
63:Is watching porn while being in a relationship inappropriate?
honestly I never really thought about this, only because it's NEVER been something that came up in any of mine in the past so like i say it's up to you and your partner
65:Would you consider yourself a "cuddler"?
as long as it's not shane
