This girl sounds very special. Please keep us updated, If you feel safe enough to do so? Is that REALLY all you can tell us?? - crush anon
If I feel safe enough? Oh that’s very backwards! This has nothing to do with if I’m comfortable or safe with sharing who she is, or even hinting more about her in a way that could potentially alert others to her. I most certainly will share updates and gush about her completely and totally, but she is a very private person- and has vocalized how she wishes to take things slow.
I will be more than willing when she tells me precisely how she feels about us, and if she wishes for this potential relationship to take off. I am not going to ruin the trust she has in me, I suppose this is a very “Mindolyn” situation.
What I can say is that I have been nothing but wholly understanding, truthful, and loving. I’ve let her known aspects of me that I have kept buried and hidden— she knows of my past, and my last two relationships never did. I was foolish, I pushed myself aside to make them feel like they were on a pedestal without taking into account how I felt. I won’t do that again, I learned my hard and soft boundaries (emotionally). She made sure I would promise to tell her when something upset me, which meant a lot- considering my feelings, and the past I’ve hid were never ever a conscern to my last partners. I’m perhaps more Venable in nature, or a Mildred, because I too dissembled myself, but not anymore. I am true to her; truly i am a Sally inwardly.