About the Shiftblr PSA
This morning a few people messaged me about this PSA. One was asking who it was so that they could avoid them because they were scared. The second was the other victim in this situation, @draco-malfoys-wine-aunt, wanting to know if we should make a post or not. The third was one of my friends who I had confided in, and who told @shifting-inspos and encouraged them to make the post. In this third message was her letting me know that this person had messaged her again, after she had told her not to contact her again the day prior. In this message she called her a snake and among other nasty things.
Before I come forward and let you all know who it is. I just want to preface this saying, this person, to my current knowledge and understanding of what happened(I’m learning new things about the situation the more I talk to people about my experiences), is not an abuser. They are just an incredibly toxic, negative, and immature person. They are also prone to explosive anger(which is kept quietly contained in dms) so I don’t recommend contacting them.
The adult mentioned in this PSA is Sariel/girl-between-worlds. Now, as I am not Bella I cannot speak for her experiences, but I will speak for mine. If you would like ss of our last fight then please, dm me and I will share them with you. If some of you were in the Shiftblr Homies group chat a while ago you’ll remember when Sariel made an nsfw joke in a conversation with mainly me and a few other minors. The joke was that you censor an innocent word to make it seem like an nsfw one. What she said was similar to; “Anakin is super hot and I want him to **** me.” This isn’t exactly it but she said this and claimed it was supposed to say “kiss”. When yeah sure, but the joke is that why would you censor kiss it must be something worse than that. Lark, the owner of the group chat, stepped in and ended the fight before she could get too defensive and try to turn it around on me or make it seem like it was both our faults. Something she tends to do often in arguments or when someone tells her that she’s crossed a boundary. Here is an actual quote from out last fight:
“Its not rude to tell someone to stop doing something that makes you uncomfortable” She said this in a fight where I was confronting HER about crossing multiple of my boundaries. One moment she acts like she’s too young to know what she was doing and how she doesn’t think about age online, and then the next she’s trying to act all motherly and give me advice from an older person’s perspective???? A few months ago I edited a photo of us, which she then called us hot. I didn’t say anything at the time because I wanted her to like me. I remember this was the first time she crossed one of my boundaries, but she was one of my first friends in the shiftblr community! I didn’t want her to dislike me, and by late December I saw what happened when people tried to set a boundary with her or tell her that she had broken one.(We met in early December.) One day Sariel messaged me going on a rant about Bella, saying how explosive she was, how rude she was, how much of a bitch she was being about the situation. I thought she had done something horrible. That was until Bella messaged me, she told me that she wanted me to get her side of the story, and that she knows Sariel wouldn’t tell me but to avoid falling into a trap I should know. I told her about Sariel’s rant, and she told me that that whole rant had come about because Bella had asked her to tag nsfw posts and to stop tagging her in them. Bella is 16. Her system’s protector was the one being overly hostile, not her, but during their argument she would only focus on that and not the matter at hand. There are other instances where she said things that made me uncomfortable, and I did not speak up because I wanted her to like me, but I do not remember those as clearly.
If anyone else has experiences with her that you would like to share feel free to add on.
