“Letting go“ in shifting doesn’t mean to stop trying to shift. It’s just knowing that you were meant to shift and accepting that you’re gonna shift one day, no matter how long it takes. You shouldn’t put pressure on yourself to shift “faster” because time is not real and the months/ years you spend in this reality are incomparable to the infinity you will spend shifting and exploring other realities.
note: fully inspired by @stilljuststardust's post "the senses shift last", which you can read here.
how often do you experience anxiety? or intrusive thoughts? as a person living in a certainly tempestuous time, you've likely had to brush off those thoughts more than once.
the act of shifting is defined by choosing to become aware of your desired reality, and your senses immediately following suit is a rare event.
when you go to shift to your desired reality, I want you to brush off what your senses tell you like you would an irrational thought. if you're like me and have ocd or anxiety or depression, this doesn't seem possible, so I offer you another solution —
treat your senses like they're a jealous peer spreading rumours about you. we've all been there already. not everyone is going to like you, and sometimes that makes them lash out in ridiculous ways. there's nothing else you can do about it than brush them off, laugh at it, scoff at it.
you know that meme, "all I can do is pray for you — matter a' fact bow ya head"? that's the energy you have to embody when somebody's lying to you or on you. oh, I hope you'll get better ♡ jealousy is a disease type energy. when you shift, treat the 3D and your senses like you pity them for not knowing better and feeling that way. pity the 3D for not keeping up with the times. pay it less mind than you would someone trying to get a rise out of you.
have you ever heard of the "let them" theory? I first discovered it on the justnomil subreddit. it's a way of not giving someone attention when they're doing something stupid, or mean, or ridiculous. essentially, if someone's not going to listen to reason or common sense, don't sweat off your back trying to get them to. it's unnecessary stress and futile. let them make a fool of themself because experience is the best teacher.
so let the 3D say what it wants. let your senses try to convince you that you haven't shifted. it won't matter because you know the truth. you know you're in your DR. you know you're your DR self. let the 3D make a fool of itself — experience will make it catch up sooner or later.
tldr — look at the 3D like this when you're trying to shift;
warning
be sure to limit this method to when you're actively trying to shift or manifest. don't use it to fuel delusions or psychosis. you can participate in the 3D and maintain lucidity while still manifesting.
1.) Get comfortable in any position you like and breathe three in and four out
2.) Tell yourself shifting is easy for you and you've always been able to do it. Start to affirm your in your Dr even if it doesn't feel like your there.
3.) Feel your bed that is your Dr bed those are your Dr pillows.
4.) Think thoughts that you would think of if you were in you Dr. What would you do today? what outfits would u where?
5.) Think of scenarios the best to think of is scenarios with people your close to.
6.) Go to sleep with an intention that you will shift
Thinking about that one time I was affirming "I am shifting to my dr," but I was so sleepy my brain changed it to "I am shifting to the diddy party" and I busted out laughing
✦ youtuber , (1st) geneviève eden silvestrè , 18 , s/o: n/a , trope: n/a family: evangeline & antonio silvestrè (parents) leo + angelina + dom (brothers & sister) / (2nd) imani eden monroe , 21 , s/o: berlin edmond , family: nilani monroe (mom) angelica & clementine (sisters)
◎ footballer , violet dupont , 21 , s/o: elisa de almeida , trope: teammates -> lovers , family: jamais dupont (dad) claude & blaise dupont (brothers) , team: psg feminines + women's french national
☆ actress , (1st) violette eden irl last name , 20 , s/o: drew starkey , trope: costars -> lovers , family: leila (mom) anastasia & june (sisters) , main roles: charlotte in obx + edith in despicable me + peyton in the game plan / (2nd) valerie eden auclair - [under construction]
𐙚 kpop , (1st) jenevieve eden levesque , 19 , s/o: christopher bang , trope: strangers -> friends -> lovers , year: 2020 , family: nilani levesque (mom) leo + angelina + dontai + alias + charlotte monroe (siblings :3) , groups: nct, nct 127, nct x / (2nd) - [under construction]
ᡣ𐭩 teen fame , genevieve eden morgan , 14 , s/o: elisa de almeida (15) , trope: friends -> lovers , family: jeffery dean morgan (dad) , main rolls - [under construction]
一 that's all ! if you have any same / similar dr's feel free to talk about them or dm me so we can !! (i desperately need to see satosugu happy if you can't tell)
❥ i didn't mention my waiting room cause that'll be another post, but it's basically a city shifting hub / giant waiting room for shifters from all different realities ! lemmie know if you wanna hear about it :)
the terms “desired reality” and “current reality” never sat right with me even when i started shifting two and a half years ago. i have always preferred “destined reality” and “original reality”, they just make more sense to me. do people realize that their “current reality” will become their “original reality” and that their “desired/destined reality” will become their “current reality” when they shift? or you could just say that your selected dr, for example, my waiting room, is your “original reality” because you’re STILL THERE, you’re just not aware of it until you shift? this has always fascinated me, if i even made sense saying all that