22A. Do you want children with your partner? Why or why not?
I apologize if this is too personal of a question!
Oh, haha, most certainly not. 😅 I suppose that's one of the few things that's stayed consistent through my life. I've always found the idea of having a child unappealing, and the thought of pregnancy is particularly perturbing to me. It still makes me uncomfortable to think about, even though it's not a possibility for me ever since I sought out a sex change early on in my life.
Perhaps I'm simply too selfish to want to devote myself to raising a whole other being... I'd much rather focus my attention at home solely on Hiei. It's honestly blissful having so much alone time with him. ♡ I just hope my choice to not have children won't disappoint my mother. 😥 I know that she looks forward to grandkids someday. Perhaps Kokoda will deliver on that front at some point... Though I'm not sure what his plans may be for that, or if he even has any thoughts on it yet. Hm, actually... My mother has taken such a shining to my best friends, I bet she'll adopt any of their future kids as her own grandchildren, haha.
I know Keiko and Yusuke are planning to have kids. They're not really actively trying for it though. They've said they're not in any sort of rush, just going to "let it happen when it happens." Yukina and Kuwabara have expressed their desire for children as well- hoping for twins, actually-but Yukina isn't quite ready for that yet.
In all honesty... I am kind of excited for the day those two have kids. Ah, I hope that doesn't sound like I don't care about Yusuke and Keiko also having kids though! That's far from the truth! I just have a lot of anticipation for the prospect of Hiei becoming an uncle... He has expressed our shared aversion to the thought of having kids- or for him, being around them in general, haha- but I just know that he'd be a wonderful uncle. If he allows himself to be one, that is... I hope by then he'll have finally told Yukina of their relation... I already consider my best friends like they're my own kin, and I'd love for Hiei to be able to experience that joy with his sister, especially once their family starts growing. Really, the thought of Hiei cradling his niece or nephew really just warms my heart. And I know deep down how much he would desire to be a part of their life, and desires the same with his sister as well...
Ah, but regardless of how the future will unfold, it makes me really happy that our little family will be expanding soon. 😊 Even if I don't want to raise children myself, I'll be more than happy to be an uncle to them. Seems Botan and Shizuru will be in the same position, they're not interested in having kids either. Though, it likely wouldn't be very viable for them anyways, as Botan needs to be able to leave at a moments notice for her job as a reaper.
Also no worries! I don't mind questions like this at all. :)
