#shotgunwithwings

[monttagues]

shotgunwithwings replied to your post “(1) kat, i wanted to thank you for introducing me to so many great...”

THANK U i love u the most! (btw i just finishes the all for the game series and omg i loved it so much and i wasnt ready to let them go yet, i feel so empty)

lmao i feel you i reread the last book a few days ago and i’m still crying about it bye!!!! i’m just!!! so happy and in love!!!!!! bc when i first started aftg i was like “how am i ever gonna relate to anyone here” and like probably 60 pages into tfc i was just going “same” every other sentence lmaooo i love my Children so much i will protect All Of Them 

[monttagues]

(1) kat, i wanted to thank you for introducing me to so many great lgbt+ books. i've always loved to read and i'd like to read more, but nowadays i dont really have much freetime (thanks work&school). lately every time i see you post something about a book, i write down down the name, and when i have time to read, i go and buy those books. i have been reading way more because i dont have to waste time searching for interesting books.

(2) you've introduced me to so many wonderful books and life-changing characters, and i wanna thank you so much! you have no idea how much it means to me that i can find quality books with so amazing lgbt+ characters and relationships. i love you <3 ps. what are the lgbt+ books you feel like everyone should read? just in case ive missed something :D

this is so sweet omg you’re v welcome bc i like crying over books & i like make others cry over books as well!!!! 

ANYWAY let me try to make a list lmao........ this one is far from complete (and lacks a lot of f/f themed books because... well lbr because those have been harder to find recs for and i have a massive To Read list of f/f books but i haven’t had a chance to dig in yet. it’s tragic, i know.)

aristotle and dante discover the secrets of the universe

simon vs the homo sapiens agenda

everything sarah waters has written probably. i’ve only read fingersmith but i trust everyone’s opinions on her/her other books

adaptation

proxy series

the torch keeper series (triggers for gore & murder & abuse; also may not have a happy ending, i haven’t finished it yet)

ash 

fun home (graphic novel)

brokeback mountain

kissing the witch

all for the game (though be VERY aware of all the triggers on this one. i loved it but it’s quite....... something.......... so be cautious) 

i’ll give you the sun (currently reading this one) 

something like series (also currently reading, not sure how the rest of the series will play out but it’s okay so far) 

[teamhero]

shotgunwithwings replied to your post:i dont think i would ever wanna meet sebastian. i...

it’s def easier to think he’s not real haha

lmao right? it hurts less when if i think it that way lol

[teamhero]

'wheres my soulmate' im right here

but are you sebastian stan

[evanstan]

kamiki77 : stevebottoms slaughtermemore When the Evanstan tag...

I don’t get this either. Like, I don’t personally ship EvanStan but it kinds of comes with the territory of Stucky so I’ve always just been like “eh?” and enjoyed all the pretty pics and edits of two pretty men.

shotgunwithwings : slaughtermemore When the Evanstan tag is your...

why do people tag their hate??????? ive never understood the concept of wanting to spread hate, wtf??? (also what seb’s comment?? what have I missed??)

I don’t understand either, and it’s why I’m so upset rn. I would NEVER go in my Notp tag, even less to post how much I loathe it there? Do you want people to throw rocks at you? Because just say so, I’d do it without you needing to hurt my feelings ^.^

When asked about his relationship with Chris Seb said “we stay in touch, we cross paths, but every time we see each other we pick right back up.” (whole answer here) and I don’t see why people are going crazy over this. Like said in another post in the tag, I see that as a sign of great friendship. Of course they’re not BFF and they’re not seeing ecah other every week but it’s always been clear. That’s not new?

What I like is the dynamic between them, Sebastian is always so shy and sweet around him, like he’s still impressed by Chris and the man he is, kind of like a fan. And Chris is always gushing over how amazing and talented and nice Sebastian is. That’s what I enjoy, so let me enjoy it???

[evanstan]

shotgunwithwings said “Long story short : Today was my first ‘real’ day at Uni. And I cried....”

oh no, what happened? you okay now?

eyesoffelina said “Long story short : Today was my first ‘real’ day at Uni. And I cried....”

What happened? It's okay though, whatever happened. I still know you'll do fine :)

Yeah I’m better! It’s just that she kept explaining so many things and repeating how much oral participation counts, and asked us to pair up for future presentations and I don’t know anybody while obviously everyone knows at least someone. So I had a massive break down, (because I’m an extremely shy potato).

[monttagues]

omg i cant believe someone said they "called you out on your bigotry" like wtf ??? what is happening?? really, some people should think before they hit the post. your post had a valid point and no "but not all straight people" can change that fact. love you, pls keep making important posts!

i didn’t even say “all straight people literally every single one of them” and yet ppl are still throwing that in my face like

come on y’all

[kurooscoffee]

heyy anja! awhile ago, i found the wonderful world of phan and now i cant get enough. and tho YT is an amazing place, i feel like it's not enough on its own anymore. could you please recommend me some great phan/phil/dan blogs? i trust your taste completely and promise to love you forever!! (also pls tell me phandom is full of great people instead of lot of wank?? cos i dont think i can handle fighting fandoms anymore.)

heyy! here are some Phan blogs that I follow for daily updates and good phan blogging:

dailyphan

agentbuckybarnes

phangst

omgitsphan

adayinthelifeofphan

phanoftheheart

100percentphanosaur

amazingphil-gifs

lineofsymmetry

and on twitter, you definitely can’t get away without following updatedphan and PhandomStats (hilarious!). Also danisnotonfirevyou1 on youtube is your saviour whenever you miss a liveshow/event that Dan&Phil are at! :)

as for the fandom…. weeeell, it has its fair ammount of drama! But I wouldn’t say it’s as bad as SPN, for example. The people in it are fairly young and mostly don’t take themselves too seriously & don’t behave like entitled drama queens like some of spn fandom wankers do (hehh), but there is still some drama… It’s mostly about people disrespecting Dan&Phil’s privacy, and this can get ugly, because both those who disrespect it, as well as the “phandom police” can get pretty intense. But you can easily stay out of it by following people that are wank free, or at least know more or less where the limit is :) 

For some Phan discussion, you might be interested in visiting phantaray (too much wank for me personally tbh), phandirectorylinks phanswers (that last one has a list of similar discussion blogs in the sidebar!)

And yeah that’s it, if you have any questions, you’re welcome to! ^_^