So I have two partners, but while I like sex on occasion, I'm more than happy to go months w/out it, so I have. I'm not even enjoying kissing much right now. My partners understand, but I've also had both of them express feeling undesired/unattractive recently... I try to say the right things but actions speak louder to them, but I'm stumped/emotionally worn out from life honestly so, any advice for how I can express attraction & desire to them without getting sexual?
I have a partner with sensory issues, and there are times when he is extremely uncomfortable being touched in an intimate way. So, we devised a signal between the two of us to convey love/attraction/etc without making him uncomfortable. I talk about that at length in this post.
I hope this helps!
~Arin