reminder that consent is not static. it can be revoked at any time, in any circumstance, and it NEVER requires an explanation beyond “no”. if you cannot respect that, you should not be on this app or any app for that matter.
that includes someone saying that their DMs are open. that does not give you consent to say whatever you want to that person without consequence. and it DEFINITELY does not give you consent to use that person like a personal kink dispenser.
and PLEASE read people’s bios and pinned posts. it would save so much grief.











