What really baffles me is that biphobic people seem to think people want to be bisexual to be cool. As if anyone wants to be insulted, bullied, rejected by family and friends, possibly victim of agressions, crying when they're alone because they're told they're not valid by both straight and gay people. Bi people actually thanked me when I told them they were as valid as anyone, that's how bad biphobia is. No one should have to feel grateful because someone accept their sexual orientation.
oh god i know. when i was in highschool i wouldn’t tell anyone i was bi because i was scared i would lose my female friends, or that people would judge me. i’ve recently come out to my mom just to be told it’s a phase. i’ve been questioning myself for so many months. some days i wonder if i’m faking it, if it’s really just a phase, if i should choose. don’t get me wrong, i think being bi is cool and i don’t wish to be straight, i don’t feel ashamed in the slightest for who i am, but i wish i didn’t have to feel confused and lost. and yet i know i’m lucky because it never caused me to be bullied or rejected.
