Hey Zaza, I identify and nonbinary, but I also have wanted to get top surgery for years now. The issue is that I don't think I feel any dysphoria when it comes to my chest; at the same time though I remember hitting puberty when I was younger and looking at myself in the mirror and thinking that my body was wrong, and as I got older I caught myself wishing that I had a more masculine looking chest. I guess I'm just kinda having doubts about my feelings? Any Advice?
i say, go for it! tht’s cuz i believe tht we have full body autonomy. you wanna pierce your ears-go for it. you wanna tattoo ur bicep- go for it. you wanna get a new nose- go for it! go for whatever “it” is...
.. as long as you’ve fulfilled two key points. first, you’ve thought long and hard about the body modification and it’s truly what you want. second, you’re doing this for you and your happiness. if you meet both those (and you’re an adult, claro!) then go for it!
this body is yours to do, whatever you choose to do with it. which means you get to decide how you want to look and change whatever you feel needs changing. wishing you good luck, Sim turtledove!!!