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Your love story is in the making love, fret not

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About Me!

Christian/singer/writer/sister/friend/daughter/mother

New to blogging but I have a lot of stories, poetry things, that I write that I’m now putting to use (better late than never). I like to make people laugh. I have a corky sense of humor. I love to love on people and motivate others in anyway possible.

I created this blog to discuss and express feelings on one of the most undesired titles not earned but given, SINGLENESS! A lot of women don’t want or feel the need to talk about being the “spare”, but lets get something off our chests ladies, WE’RE TIRED OF BEING THE SPARES, and I’m tired of feeling ashamed about it, we all go through a stage like this in our lives so lets talk about it. Spares wtf? Yes the parts or pieces that remain, the just in case. Being single may feel like you’re left as the spare (you) while the pairs (couples) enjoy themselves. You know, one of the most important part of our lives is establishing relationships, we are NOT made to be alone and that’s Gods word.

I’ve been single for a little over 4 years and I feel like I’ve reached a dead end. What I’ve learned since becoming closer to Christ is that “All things work together for the good of them who love the Lord”, even though you may not see results instantly he’s working it out.

The wait may be the hardest part of the process but the end result will be great and unimaginable. While you’re waiting on that special someone NOW is your opportunity to be come close with your creator and yourself, know who YOU really are. We have desires wants and needs it’s okay to want these things but don’t lose sight.

Here’s my journey loves, share it with me..

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Ladies, you have $5 to build your ideal man….

When I first saw this photo on Instagram my heart laughed and I had to share it with my girlfriends and people on Facebook., not realizing that there was a lesson behind this photo and I was soon to realize what that lesson was.

I can truly say after doing this photo exercise I learned a lot about myself and what I would really value in a man.

7. No kids $1- I have had a lot of good and bad experiences with men would children but I can honestly say my ideal man would not have any kids. I want to start a family, not join in on an already made family. Call me selfish but I want to be second in a man’s life (God First), of course if he has children or a child, I would have to come third, fourth and maybe even fifth (depending on how many kids he has) which I would understand, but I would still prefer to be second after God, and if that is selfish of me then I guess I am selfish.

2. Funny $1- I am goofy and love to laugh and I love to make people laugh. My ideal man would have to be funny because I truly think that would keep our relationship going. I need someone I can be goofy with and he will understand my goofiness. Someone who can crack jokes with me and we can just sit up all day and night and laugh.

5. Faithful $3- And of course my ideal man would need to be faithful. I have been cheated on in my past and that pain that came with the cheating I wouldn’t want to wish that on anyone. To be cheated on and loose trust and faith in that relationship and attempt to get it back but it has failed. I wouldn’t want to repeat the same cycle so faithfulness is a BIG must on my list!

When I shared this with my girlfriends a lot of jokes went around talking about “I would be in overdraft” “I need a loan” “I need more money.” But this exercise really opened my eyes as to what I am willing to buy (want in a ideal male).

We ladies tend to have a long list as to what we want our ideal man to be like but what happens when that one perfect man comes into your lift and he is 5 out of 7 on your list, what do you do? What are your deal breakers? Are you willing to go into overdraft protection just to buy more for your list or are you willing to get a loan?

Believe it or not I learn from this exercise that I really need to stay within my budget when it comes down to building my ideal man. This exercise did make me want to look at my list (you know that ideal mate list that we as single ladies have) and really think about what I can and cannot live with!

I hope you learned something from this photo just like I did!

Until we meet again!

xoxo

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