I can't even fathom this. I am living a sitcom right now and it is not the one I wanna be in!
About a year or so ago my friend went on like two dates with this guy, said, 'Eh, I don't really wanna date you, but I'd be down for friends.' And he agreed. Except he clearly wasn't there for just friends. Very much there to convince her to date him.
This lasted for a bit before he finally went Full Douche. They got into a fight about him constantly disrespecting her boundaries. She ended up apologizing to him and he responded with an entire long ass paragraph about how he was sorry, but also he was right and it was only natural that he disrespect her boundaries, etc. etc. etc.
So, she's had enough of him and I kind of helped her write a not too terribly long rebuttal and... He responds with what's pretty much a freaking essay on why it's ok for men to disrespect women's boundaries because 'sex is natural' and he's such a stud that wen do that same to him and making overtly sexual comments is ok for him to do because BiOlOgY.
So.... I kind of helped her write what pretty much amounted to a scholarly feminist's manifesto (with a little bit of respect Aces juice thrown in there) that took every sexist, bullshit non-scientifically authenticated, fake biology, fake psychology bullshit point he made during the entire argument and shredded it.
We sent it to him and blocked him.
Neither of us have had any contact with him since.
I found out he is now working at my work. Of all the places in this entire freaking area. He is working at my work. I don't know if he even remembers me or if he knows I was in bed in writing the declaration of womanly independence, but I cannot believe this guy is now working at my work. It's so weird it's hilarious! 🤣🤣🤣