What’s the best way to help someone start ruining?
Write me a paycheck and I’ll tell you :) I am kidding so very much because I’m more than happy to help !
First, (this is assuming that they edge and know when they’re about to cum) just have them practice tipping over the edge and then stopping. Don’t put too much pressure on when they stop it while they’re learning. The important part is just that they do. Whether they tip over and let it go for a second or two or tip over and immediately stop doesn’t matter. As long as they don’t feel the full effects of the orgasm. That’s what we want. For that really great amazing orgasm to be stopped in its tracks.
Second, they need to figure out how to stop it. This part is both mental and physical. It takes a lot mentally to stop all of that pleasure. Physically stopping it is kinda up to them. If they’re using their fingers, make them take them off. If it’s a vibe, it can be a little trickier because even after they take it off, the orgasm can still happen. Spreading their legs and forcing them to stay still, no grinding their hips, trying not to clench, pinching, slapping, biting…are all ways to help make that orgasm turn into a ruin.
And there ya have it folks! How to: Ruin. (I try every time to keep these short and always fail.)
I hopeeeee this is helpful !! Feel free to DM if you have any other questions!