#sofia isella anon

[my-castles-crumbling]

Anon Advice Asks

guava anon, terminal anon (new), sofia isella anon, grounded anon

(Sorry this one's less people than usual, I'm really busy today!)

guava anon

Heyyyy cas!! It's guava anon!!

Thank you for your reply!! I feel really better now!!! Love love

Yay, I'm glad you feel better! No problem <3

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terminal anon (tw- illness)

Terminal illnesses have no right to take the most beautiful souls and yet they do. It’s not fair.

She’s wonderful and one of my favourite people, she has been since I was little. I don’t remember much from my childhood but I’ve always known her to be such a light in a world of darkness and gloom

I don’t want to lose her, none of my family do. She’s the best of us all

Hi hon <3

I'm so sorry. I wish there was something I could say to make this better but the reality is that the only thing I can do is offer virtual hugs. Do you want to tell me more? I'm here to listen <3 (Also if you want to change your anon name, lmk, I just had to pick something that you knew who you were).

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sofia isella anon

omg i’m jealous!!

like imo whether or not you like her music she has SUCH a stage presence and like just watch a short of her doing hot gum or the doll people trust me you’ll get it.

also have i mentioned how gender envy she is

and i say that as someone with 0 inclination to be a woman or feminine or 0 desire to be perceived that way (the exact opposite actually)

but just. the vibes. the vibes are gender.

she’s like if pandora and regulus had a child

that level of gender

and yes the james potter thing was amazing

<3

OMG she IS gender...in the pictures I just looked at she's giving like horror movie vibes but in the best way...ugh I'm so mad I didn't watch her set now.

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grounded anon

Hello again!

I am just as queer as last ask, thanks for asking

Basically, we were walking out of class Tuesday and she said I love you like dokfnfndndjddjdj

Also ahe always tells me stuff she doesn't tell anyone else? Like I'm fixing to get down on ONE KNEE AND PULL OUT A RING

Anyway, all tje other grades had gone on fied trips except mine (typical) so they planned a 'fun day' for us. Basically, we were stuck in gym till like 11 something (not that I'm complaining) and basically of either of us Ever had to go anywhere the other tagged along. Also we were like leaning on eachother most of the time during gym. She rested her head on my arm while we watched this sow and it was just ahjsjdhddjdjjsisdnnkdksk

The we went to lunch and we FINALLY got free seating (the bitch ass principle had .ade us sit in ASSIGNED spots the entire year) so me and her sat together and had our knees pressed against eachother and the FEELS

Then we wet to go on these dumbass inflatable water slides and the water was like murky because of all the boys. It was also raining and cold af?!

I ended uo falling really bad so me and her sit out for a bit before we went with a teacher (who also didn't want to be there lol) and we went to her classroom.

We ended up chilling fir a few hours (not touching eschother, sigh) but I sat up in a char eventually because art block stopped beng a butch so she sat up too amd then we pressed our knees together and RAH

After a bit other people had come in and we were watching hamilton and she like layedagaindt my chest so I wrapped my around her (because it was more comfortable, I'm being fr rn) and rested my head on hers and it was just URGH

Thursday is my last day of school. I don't think I'll get a kiss but thats okay. She probably doesn't like me back anyway, I wouldn't lol.

Are you excited for he wishbone album (conan gray)?!?!? I am raaaahhhh

Anyway, have a lovely day. Your so awesome sauce

-grounded anon

Wow it sounds like you guys had a good day together though! I wish the school I work at did things like that for the students...I hope the two of you are able to hang out over the summer?

I am SO excited for Wishbone. Did you like This Song? I've already listened to it a million times.

Sending love!

[my-castles-crumbling]

Anon Advice Asks - May 28

flirting friend anon (new?), sofia isella anon (new), guava anon, default anon, grounded anon

flirting friend anon

Hi Cas I don’t know if it’s just in my head or if one of my friends is flirting with me!

He has been a lot more touchy with me recently, like when I put my hand up for a high five he’ll just like grab my hand? It’s in a sort of odd way though.

Sometimes I jokingly pretend to stroke his arm (not actually touching him because I know he doesn’t like that sometimes) and he’s said “that’s weird you can actually stroke my arm yk I don’t mind” (he usually does not like psychical contact)

Also there’s a more lowkey prom coming up and when he heard of it (we were with one more of our friends) he turned to me and asked if I wanted to go to queer prom with him (instead of also asking the friend as well, like he actively turned to face me)

Also he has been so much nicer to me recently. He’s helped me past points where he usually would’ve given up and has just been nicer to me. Usually I don’t really talk about my interests (the marauders) around my friends but he asked me about them and even made serious sirius jokes.

(Reading this last paragraph back this just seems like he’s being a good friend but this behavior is odd for him)

I truly have no idea though, and it’s just sort of… a whole mess I guess. I think I just wanted to get this off my chest because I can’t talk to any of my friends about it lol

Hi!

Okay so I think I somehow got your asks out of order. You might be the same person I write to yesterday? BUT

I mean yeah this feels like flirting? It's always funny when people ask me about this stuff because I am the LAST person to know. But I think the thing you said about it being new/odd is important. Like it's a good indicator that he is flirting, you know?

Are you guys actually going to queer prom? Because if so, I NEED an update.

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sofia isella anon

cas cas cas

so this artist i like (her names sofia isella, you should check her out if you haven’t already) posted this yt short that was just like “everyone’s hot” and it was a bunch of hot women lip syncing to her song (great marketing btw) ANYWAY so its just all these really pretty women right

and then

randomly

there’s just this random person

cosplaying james potter

OUT OF NOWHERE

imeanimnotcomplainingitwasjustreallyrandom

and like. i truly appreciate the thought process of this woman. like this is what we need want: hot women and james potter

that’s it

thank you for coming to my ted talk

(here’s the short if you’re interested https://youtu.be/KKISf6G2NNo?si=7ulxDb9HcGm-4zIV)

Okay first of all thats so fucking cool.

Second I wish you sent this like...a MONTH ago because I was at a show she played at and I didn't watch because I didn't know who she was! Now I have regrets...

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guava anon

Hi cas!! How are you?

It's guava anon here, though what i want to ask it's completely unrelated with that

So, i used to have this best friend that we were like sisters. But then, three and a half years ago she started distancing herself from me and saying that she can't go out with me and then posting photos of her with our other friends.

Anyway, that year, even though all of that happened, i invited her to my birthday party and she came (and i must note that she was the last person to leave so kudos to her for that).

But then, we were in different classes and started drifting further apart until we just weren't talking other than "hi"s or interacting when we were in the same group.

We stopped wishing each other for our birthdays, and those last three years she didn't have a party, but i didn't invite her to mine.

Yesterday, after all that, her parents and her new best friend threw her a surprise birthday party and i got invited (tho idk if she'd have invited me if she had thrown it herself). But at first they had said it was gonna be on the afternoon, and i had an obligation then, so i said i couldn't go. And to be honest, i wasn't keen on going because of all that has happened between us. Like we haven't wished each other happy birthday in two years and we barely talk. I'm more of an introvert and i am awkward with people. But then, the party got hosted on the evening which i could go to, but i wasn't feeling up to it and i just wanted to rest.

Today, i feel bad that i didn't go, because I wasn't busy, but my mum told me that after what she's done to me i shouldn't feel bad. But idk.

Can you tell me your opinion on the matter please?

Hi!

Honestly it doesn't sound like you had any obligation to go at all. Like first of all we don't even know if she KNEW you were invited, so she might not even know that you didn't go. But even if she did, she hasn't gone out of her way for you....so you're not letting her down or anything. I don't think you should feel bad at all. There's not a precedent set of going to each others' recent parties, you don't talk much...it's nice to be invited but there's no reason to feel like you have to go if you don't want to. I wouldn't feel bad if I were you!

<3

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default anon

CAS HI HI

sorry this is an advice ask u dont have to reply idfk

but yeaj

i think i'm bi!!!

i was literally confused for like YEARS and just ignored it even tho i reeally wanted to figure out what my sexuality was. but. yeah i think im bi. like earlier i thought i was aro ace or something along those lines cause i'd never really liked anyone BUT i think im bi

like i feel like my old friend was weird about this kinda stuff i didn't really liked it but ever since i moved schools it's been way better so i think that also helped

i mean i still dont know 100% obviously but yeah!

i hope you have the best day!! <3

default anon

(im soryr also i havent done this in a whiel idk if ur still doing these asks or if this is fine augfjd so sorry if liek this is not yk)

Hi! I'm still here :D

Congrats on figuring out more about yourself, that's awesome! It's definitely a great feeling! Remember that even if you figure out you're something different in the future, that doesn't make this feeling any less valid, and it's okay to change your mind as you learn more about yourself and grow! I'm proud of you for being you!

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grounded anon

Hello again!

I survived through Sunday (no kisses D:)

But anyway it was so much FUN

Basically we seam in my pool (she looked so pretty in a swim suit I was dying) I was BELTING out EPIC with her and it was so fun. My dogs kept trying to fight eachother tho (they didn't, thank God my dog has a good scruff on her neck)

And whe we went inside we were basically cuddling on the couch (I was leaning on her arm) and we were watching tiktok.

Anyway all in all I had a good day. My mother has not tried to pick any fights and Crush doesn't know she is being crushed on by her bestfriend. 3 more days of school and I'm out!

Thanks for the advice. I really appreciate it

-grounded anon

Hi! That sounds like such a fun day! And kisses or no, it sounds like you're happy, which is what's important <3 I hope things continue to go well!