#some shade

[whodidthisandforwhatpurpose]

That note hasn’t been sung that well since he left the band. 😂

[alltheladiesyouhate]

@lunahearts sprout/flitwick, apparently? i didn’t check source but it sounds like something she’d be into

[fullofvexation]

Thinking for the millionth time about how Tanis would have been such a good podcast if it was good.

Please someone make me the weird analog-urban-horror-meets-Annihilation story I crave so I can get so obsessed with it.

[hurricanejane]

I just happened to be at The Song Remains the Same in my current watch through, same week as the prequel premiered but it just reminded me how much I loved Matt Cohen and Amy Gumenick as John and Mary.

[bakarilennox]

I wish Montag would’ve found The Invisible Man…

No shade.

[kiss-shotheart-under-blade]

Man, I appreciate long meta posts with evidence, but going on literally every site and forum to post about the same thought on EVERYTHING is a tad much don't cha think? Even if I share some of your opinions, like my dude, chillll. I don't like the way you present most of it in this 'I'm your typical viewer', but actually I'm the most pretentious kid out there way besides the fact that I only agree with some of the thoughts. I'm just, ugh. I'm trying to escape ONLY their opinion, but it's so hard?? If I agreed with their analyses more, I wouldn't mind seeing more of their stuff, but they're a bit self-serving with their evidence and grating with how they share rebuttals. I mean I don't have to necessarily agree with anything for it to not be valid, but like I like I really, really don't agree. I think it's way too bias.

[the-secrets-under-the-bed]

Lol please lurk all you want 😘

[sstephk]

There's this girl and I like this girl a lot and literally in the span of 48 hours I went from practically having her and having it all to being unsure if it's gonna work out between us

I see I see.

Well I mean idk how I would be able to help you with that / what you’re asking since I never had that happen to me :^).

On a actual serious advice note that’s also broad/open; three options are available.

1) if you actually like her a lot (you need to value that yourself) then you determine whether she’s worth fighting for or not. Effort matters a lot, however make sure that it’s appropriate, respectful, and that in the end it becomes mutual (please don’t invade her space/bubble/ignore her feelings cause at that point you’re being a dick and you don’t deserve the person). You don’t want to mess things up any further nor can you force things. Because a relationship based on lies / fake is worse honestly and will not last long. It’ll cause so much drama and unnecessary pain and bad trails when there doesn’t need to be one. Just because you really like her doesn’t mean the feelings are mutual towards you. She could be the one/everything to you but you’re not to her and that’s the worst feeling to have but it is life and we don’t know how the other person exactly feels. A relationship only works if both parties meet each other half way. Not the way of you should be the one giving everything and getting nothing in return. You should be receiving / taking as well from her.

2) You end it / go with it and move on. Learn from what happened and the times/friendship/romantic relationship things done together and grow as a person, become better. Remember how happy that person made you and strive to look for that similar happiness whilst growing to become a better you. It sucks to do that to someone you really like but it’s life and it’s better to learn from it than to be stuck in the past/complacment/depressed about something that was once considered happiness, to you at least. You’ll be able to find either someone better or a similar happiness (no one can replace the person honestly, but what’s important is what you learned and how you’ve become). Don’t have a negative view of the person because in all honesty, that person did a lot for you and you were more than likely super happy and just being a better person. So like yeah remember what they did for you / how they made you be better and continue to be better for the next person.

3) Do nothing, be complacment and stuck in the past. Just end up wondering what could’ve happened or what could’ve been, etc.. You just kinda get depressed and stuck on what went wrong and stuff and end up blaming yourself and being super depressed / de-motivated (Which can wrong not only your chance at other opportunities but also your life overall). This is something I heavily recommend you don’t do but people kind of fall into this majority of the time. Just make sure you get out of it asap.

Don’t forget to value why you like that person and also even if she was yours and when she wasn’t, what did you want from her? If you just like her because idea of relationship then buddy we gotta have words. If it’s for happiness, maybe it’s something you can’t provide to her and that’s nothing you can do about it. Like I said, she can bring everything to you but you can’t bring anything to her. Strive for overall happiness and don’t leave bad shit around, even if the other person is the one that either starts it or dislikes/hates you in a negative way for a reaosn that is unknown to yourself. No reason to hate someone that made you happier/happy and made you be a better person than you were before you met them. Why hate something that was positive in your life?

Woops long text post but hey, imo this is some quality life advice and I’d be more than willing to give this to anyone really.

On a private note this sounds VERY RELATABLE AND AS IF SOMEONE IS ASKING ME BECAUSE THEY’RE THROWING SOME SHADE OR SOMETHING AND IS STALKING MY TUMBLR BECAUSE I KNOW WHO FOLLOWS ME AND NO ONE FROM THAT GROUP NO LONGER FOLLOWS ME SO YA’KNOW.

Could I have left a negative response? Yeah probably. That is technically an “appropriate” response as to how I have been feeling alongside “jealousy” and also feeling treated unfairly (IN MY FUCKING HONEST OPINION) since I have no idea and will always be left out of the loop. I kinda just slowly stopped caring and it’s probably for the best. Sorry if I didn’t meet your expectations and continued to let you down but how can I meet them if you don’t properly communicate them with me? OR rather just actually talk to me about stuff in a fucking calm manner and not attacking me for who I used to be. Apparently that still affects you to the point that it gives you a reason to hate me i’m pretty sure (jumping to conclusions but I can’t think of a reason why else besides some other dumb shit I did whilst in the mist of confusion of emotional wrecks). Okay I’m done byebye.