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thinking about trying again to publish a book, so! If SOMEBODIES is on your tbr, download it because I'll be taking it off AO3 this Sunday <3

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On a friend's very public post about the Swalwell revelations, a man writes, "educated people [I think he means men] like me find it hard to believe a guy in his position would send compromising photos and messages to women." I commented: In my experience, a lot of men, especially white men with status, only see the public-facing respectable version of people; the sordid private versions are reserved for people who are nobody, which is why "nobody knows" has two meanings. When I was a nobody I knew a lot about the other faces people didn't show in public or before high-status people.

When I became somebody, that stopped. I never forgot how two-faced so many people are, but I did find that such men had trouble believing that the public version is not the only version. When, for example, International Monetary Fund head Dominique Strauss-Kahn was arrested for sexually assaulting a hotel cleaner, one of his prominent friends declared that he knew him and he would never do anything like that. Then many other women came forward to say he had done many things like that, because the friend only knew his public face, his face for high-status people. The "educated people" had been educated in obliviousness.

Wrote an essay about this, of course: It is an old truism that knowledge is power. The inverse — that power is often ignorance — is rarely discussed. The powerful swathe themselves in obliviousness in order to avoid the pain of others and their own relationship to that pain. There’s a large category of acts hidden from people with standing: the more you are, the less you know....

All the world is not a stage: backstage and beyond the theater are important territories, too. There, people at all levels of power act outside the limelight, out of reach of the official rules. For underlings, this can mean a measure of freedom from a system that represses them; for those who wield power, it allows rank hypocrisy. Often they act in the confidence that the people who see them do not matter or cannot affect their reputation among those who do. Because it’s not just the knowledge itself that matters, of course — it’s also important who knows, whose knowledge it is. You could say that when the powerful insist that nobody knows, what they mean is that their acts are witnessed by nobodies. Nobody knows.

In the mid-Seventies, when she was sixteen, my friend Pam Farmer was a page in the House of Representatives, not long after female pages were first appointed. Over dinner recently, Farmer told me that one day, in the Republican cloakroom, she was standing nearby when [Congressman] Sam Steiger from Arizona made a sneeringly sexual remark to [Congresswoman] Millicent Fenwick from New Jersey, a genteel woman in her sixties. Another congressman, Barry Goldwater Jr., happened to be within earshot. He rebuked his colleague: “Would you say this in front of your granddaughter?” Steiger was flustered. He apologized — to Goldwater: it mattered that there was another man with power who had witnessed the event. Neither woman was of consequence. Somebody knew.

A more recent example: last December, female clerks came forth to accuse Alex Kozinski, a judge on the US Court of Appeals for the Ninth Circuit, of forcing them to view pornography with him. These women described how they navigated around the man; they felt obliged to treat him and his despicable behavior as an obstacle that could not be budged, like a mountain range. Alexandra Brodsky, a civil rights attorney, wrote on Twitter, “Glad to see another open secret in print. In law school, everyone knew.” But everybody who knew was nobody, at least compared to a federal judge. When an investigative journalist compiled the voices of several of these nobodies into something with clout, the judge resigned as a result.

Perhaps it’s not that knowledge is power, but that some knowledge has power and some is stripped of the power it deserves. The powerful lack the knowledge; the knowledge lacks the power. In a just society, if you say, truthfully, that someone assaulted you, that remark should have consequences. An open secret among subordinates is knowledge that is, quite literally, inconsequential. On other occasions, knowledge is received, but only reluctantly, as a result of lawsuits and settlement payments. Once the powerful know that the public knows — as when the Murdoch family was faced with exposure of Fox News CEO Roger Ailes’s long history of sexual abuse of employees — they finally feel pressure to act.

https://harpers.org:2096/archive/2018/03/nobody-knows-3/

Rebecca Solnit

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KH OC Week - Day 5

I've had soooooo much fun drawing this piece ❤️ @hikaboom was one of the first people I followed back in the self-ship Tumblr says, and it's so cool to still see her around on Bluesky! She is absolutely lovely, and her ship with Sora is just *chefs kiss* Warms my heart so much. Anyways, here's a bit of fun for Radiant Garden!

(Full disclosure, the background is a trace over game assets visited in VRChat. Backgrounds HARD.)