I'm gonna ask a question I asked before, but modified: is it possible to have Victor's parents be happy or not have a severed relationship with their son while having Victor happily married solely, non-poly, to Alice? Kinda mouthful lol.
It is! Sort of, anyway. In the Forgotten Vows Verse, when I was writing that chapter in “Remembering You” where the Van Dorts, the Whites, and Nanny all showed up at Houndsditch and ended up having lunch with Victor and Alice and the children, Nell surprised me by being willing to at least somewhat accept Alice thanks to a) her son openly saying he ran into a burning building for her and b) Alice having known a few famous people thanks to her father being a Dean at a prestigious university. It’s not a perfect relationship -- Nell makes no secret of the fact she still would have preferred the titled Victoria or Adelaide Kingsleigh, and she likes to hound Alice about establishing friendships with all those rich and important undergraduates she barely remembers (you’ll see some of this in “Fixing You”) -- but Victor and Alice figure it’s better than Nell being outright cruel. Things are a bit strained, and likely always will be (Victor never quite forgives his parents for Bumby), but they can talk civilly and exchange letters and things like that.
In other universes. . .well, in most I think eventually the elder Van Dorts will just become resigned to the fact that their son is going to marry someone not of their choosing and make the best of it (though Nell is likely to complain loudly to William for a while). I think there needs to be another complicating factor to truly smash the relationship, like William and Nell’s hatred of Touched in Secundus. Bottom line, while I don’t know if the Van Dorts will ever be truly happy about Victor marrying Alice, they can tolerate her and the relationship can continue, if on more distant terms.













