I am so glad I found your blog because I felt like I was the only one in existence who hated destiel shippers enforcing their opinions of what they think is a beautiful and cannon ship onto the rest of the SPN audience. Also I felt like so many people hate sam for no reason and I just wish he was given more attention in the earlier seasons to show you that he is in fact trying. Lastly I have the same issue u do of dreading any appearance made by Cas. Link my stomach sinks every time I see him...
Hello and welcome! You’re far from alone, majority of fans are not shippers. And among the shipping fandom, Destiel shippers are the minority. But they sure are loud! If they were more secure with their ship they wouldn’t feel the need to shove it down everybody’s throat and constantly look for validation from actors and crew.
Nice Destiel shippers have said that most of the Sam hate in the SPN fandom are from the Destiel fandom, they see it happeneing in their own fandom and feel helpless to combat it because the Destihellers won’t hesitate to turn on them and badly harass them. No one is safe from the Destihelelrs, not even Misha.
Plenty of like-minded non-Destiel shippers can be found in the Destiew and anti-Destiel tags. Enjoy!
I just wish he was given more attention in the earlier seasons to show you that he is in fact trying.
Most people can see he was trying, why else would Sam have the highest popularity score in legit marketing surveys? It’s the resolute haters like Destihellers and the infamous Ackles Army that refuse to give Sam a break because they are insanely jealous, see they want everything Sam has for their own favorite character: Destihellers want Cas to be Dean’s priority instead of Sam, and Ackles Army want Dean to be the mytharc instead of Sam.