7th hangout with the mystery woman.
I’m not sure if I said or did something wrong but she didn’t seem to enjoy herself this time.
I’m at a loss honestly. I was very polite and respectful and like a gentleman. It was at a venue she was going to go to with or without me. I even let loose enough to dance next to her (which I very rarely do). I’m maybe not the BEST dancer, but I can dance. So I don’t think it was my moves that offended.
I’m not even sure if it had anything to with me or not but several times she physically relocated away from me. I wasn’t trying to hold her hand or even touch her at all, but throughout the night she seemed anxious and uncomfortable to be physically near me. So, I stopped trying to be near her and her mood seemed to improve.
I’m trying not to take it personally. Maybe something else was bothering her. I don’t know. I don’t have a right to know about it. It’s just hard to not feel like she didn’t have a good time because of me in the absence of an explanation.
All I know for sure is, I’m not making first contact going forward. I asked her at least twice if I was doing something wrong and she said no and twice if she was feeling okay. I even asked her if my physical proximity bothered her. She said no.
She’s usually very direct so I believe her. Maybe she didn’t want to talk about things that were bothering her that were private, or maybe she felt overstimulated. But I won’t reach out to her and try to figure tonight out. If I really did something wrong, she will tell me (eventually) and if it was something unrelated to me. Or she will ghost me. I’ll honestly be surprised if I hear from her again. I’m trying my best to see if I did something wrong, I really am. Maybe she’s simply lost interest. That’s a valid possibility.
