The spouse and the lover - Moral Dilemma 1.
You are an EMT on the scene of a car crash that involves your spouse and the lover you didn’t know s/he had. They are both gravely injured, your spouse’s injuries the worst of them. You can tell it’s unlikely s/he will pull through. Meanwhile, his/her lover has a neck wound that will prove fatal if pressure isn’t applied soon. Whom do you choose to work on?
a) Work on your spouse; even though s/he cheated and probably won’t pull through, your loyalty lies with them.
b) Work on his/her lover; they can definitely be saved, and even though you may hate them, saving them is your job.