I started marathoning Twin Peaks and am halfway through season 2 and so far Ed doesn't seem that bad. Why do you dislike him, or is it a spoiler for the end of season 2/3.
I have little sympathy for cheaters, and outright scorn for most. Everyone in Twin Peaks is cheating on their SO to some extent, but how commonplace it is doesn’t make it right.
There are some of them I have a little more heart for–Norma and Shelly are both in abusive relationships they can’t escape. Bobby was too, much as I love Laura she was a troubled fucking person and she was horrible to him as a result of it. But Ed’s story is a little too much for me because you can TELL that Nadine is only as manic as she is because she’s finely tuned into how much more Ed is into Norma than he’ll ever be into her.
I have a lot of resentment for Ed because his need to be “the good guy” and avoid conflict is ruining someone close to him and you get to watch it happen. He shouldn’t have married Nadine. He shouldn’t have STAYED married to Nadine. He should’ve fucked off, let her know what was up, and then pursued his own romantic exploits while she figured out her life.
Honestly, there’s nothing that fucks me up more in media than seeing a relationship that is so obviously over continue. Whether its a matter of “staying together for the kids” or what, I hate watching it–there’s no communication and people rarely come out of it unscathed. Nadine literally tries to kill herself.
And I think a lot of the contempt I have for him comes from how people in the fandom are always talking about how nice and sweet and selfless he is, look at him he looooves Norma and just wants to be happy with her but he stays with Nadine anyyyywayyysss to keep her happy! Like no! Nadine is not happy! She is not blissfully unaware! She clearly knows what is going on and it’s CLEARLY under her skin, she knows why her husband is constantly going to the diner and leaving her alone in the house, she knows exactly where his heart is and what he gets up to and it’s death by a thousand cuts.
It’s kind of a Korrasami situation, lol. I want Nadine to be happy. I want Norma to be happy. Fuck Ed for compromising that happiness and pitting them on opposite sides.