It is funny how everything is fluid and acceptable in the aspec community except using aro and ace interchangeable. Grey folks can use aro/ace labels even tho they do experience little attraction. But except when I use ace or aro as umbrella term for both aro/ace, there are tons of people to say that it is not the correct definition. I am begging the aspec community to start accepting and normalising aro/ace folks who don't experience any attraction and doesn't use SAM. I need not get the definitions correct unless I am educating someone.
















