#spouse appreciation

[peanutbutterpickletime]

I can’t believe I get to say this.....

Toking with hubby while watching a scary movie on a Thursday evening.... I’m in awe. 🤩

@whitehawkdragon It might sound odd, but we are a bit of an odd couple. I’m so proud of the progress and the challenges you’ve overcome. I’m beyond honoured to have a front row seat to seeing you become an even greater man every single day 🥰🥰

[yadds]

Okay, for real though, my husband is the best.

Like The Baby has been a little under the weather lately. We took him in to make sure he didn’t have the flu or an ear infection or whatever but he just hasn’t been himself. So my husband said he’d go ahead and just take the day off and stay home with him (Baby goes to daycare). And of course, all day today he’s happy as can be, no fever, and seems to be feeling just fine! And instead of commenting/complaining about how he took off a day from work for nothing, the first thing Husband said after telling me how he’d been all day when I got from work was that he was glad he got the chance to stay home and spend time with just The Baby.

And idk, that just kinda made me fall in love with him all over again, because he really is the best Dad and I love seeing that. It’s especially awesome because that def isn’t the norm where we live (hello super conservative West Texas, one of the birthplaces of toxic masculinity). But yeah, he actually parents equally with me instead of being a grudging babysitter and he’s honestly actually way better with the kids than I am and he’s hands down The Toddler’s favorite human on earth - which is also why he doesn’t get to spend as much time with The Baby one on one.

Anyway, I just wanted to announce how much I love my husband because it hit me extra hard today 🥰

[nixxiesoles]

Valentines for my Valentine 🥀💘🔒🗝️💍👣🪶🫦💅🏻

@3kftworld

[nixxiesoles]

Sometimes it dawns on me that I literally have someone to rub, worship, and tickle my feet whenever I please. God, does it make me feel lucky 🙈🥰

[secretsinthevoid]

Been hella spoiled lately. We’ve gotten; multiple new plushies, some new clothes, new winter boots, some new games or dlc’s, and on Friday, we’re getting a new tattoo! We were excited and happy about all the other stuff our spouse has bought us lately but the tattoo is something he’s been working on for us to get for awhile and each time life got in the way but we can finally get it! 💃🏼

[secretsinthevoid]

Our spouse upgraded our Fitbit today as our Xmas present even though (he forgot) he already ordered us the armored owlbear that will be arriving shortly after Christmas. After overdoing it yesterday moving stuff I think it’s well deserved ☺️.

-Aztra

[secretsinthevoid]

Crazy that our spouse can tell how badly our hands are shaking based on our hand writing. I wasn’t even aware of it, but we also stopped writing things by hand a few years ago so that’s probably why.

-Elara

[secretsinthevoid]

Crazy looking back over the last 9 years and seeing how much we’ve grown and much more comfortable and confident we’ve become in like general. And it’s largely thanks to our wonderful spouse showing us real unconditional love and support. I still can’t believe we’ve been together for 9 years, it’s been a wild ride for sure.

-Atlas