Future Tense Affirmations???
I want to stress something so badly..
Don't listen to these coaches who say you HAVE to do something a certain way. Like you HAVE to say "I am" affirmations and that you HAVE to always say your affirmations in present tense. Or that you CAN'T say the phrase "I want.." because it creates lack.
You do what you feel is right for YOU!
If you are trying to affirm in the present tense and it just makes you feel worse and it doesn't feel right, then don't do it.
If you saying "They are gonna text me" or "They are gonna come back" feels better and feels right, then say that.
I can't count the amount of times I have said that I want something to happen or I want someone to text me and I forgot about it and legit the next day it comes into fruition.
Being specific and being detached are the most important things in my opinion.
I believe it might be better to say they are coming back or they are going to text you. In my humble opinion, it creates less resistance and helps you detach even more.
It is so hard sometimes to reprogram your subconscious mind in believing you already have your manifestation. And in doing so, you also have to... detach? How can you detach while also trying to reprogram your subconscious mind all. the. time. People say its easy and all you gotta do is robotically affirm or do sats or do all these techniques and on top of that.. you have to be repetitive with all that. That's so much on some people especially if you are new to manifestation.
So, try just saying "I want.." or "this is gonna happen.." it is so much easier to convince yourself that something is going to happen rather than it already happening. This also lessens resistance and helps you detach even more, knowing it is gonna happen. And once you detach, it will come in more easily.
Because knowing and trusting it is going to happen, that gives you a breather and a chance to focus and work on yourself in the present moment and not lose yourself in your manifestation.
And don't worry about how it may happen. There's no use in that. Cause you can't even begin to imagine the amount of ways it could come in and I bet it won't come in the way you are imagining it. So let go of the how, don't stress about it and get excited about it instead.
Isn't it fun not to know how?! Isn't it fun that it's going to be surprise and could happen at any minute now? Get excited! Get giddy! And focus on yourself.
And don't worry, you saying it in future tense will not keep postponing your manifestation.
I will talk about detachment soon!
