#ssodangdark

[ultimatenomi]

39 :^)

[soho-x]

what piece of media has been most influential in shaping your life?

Interesting question! I am not sure if this was one of those quarantine questions, but I have a very honest answer for this. I think one thing that fundamentally shaped who I am as a person was the US Version of the TV Show Queer as Folk. I started watching it when it debuted when I was in 8th grade, and it very definitely defined a LOT of the ways that I think about things, including sexuality, inclusiveness and shame. 

I think if I hadn’t watched that, and considering where I grew up (deep south) I would’ve never seen queer relationships that were loving, or messy or toxic or real. 

It showed me that love can be many different things, and that sometimes you have to build your own family because your ‘real’ family isn’t healthy or good. 

It taught me that sex is not something to be ashamed of, and that embracing yourself and your sexuality is a real form of self-love. It also taught me that not everyone is afforded this luxury. 

It taught me that addiction isn’t a choice, it’s an illness and something that people need help time and time again to recover from. It’s not about being weak-willed, it’s about being ill. This was huge, because up until that point, I was taught that addicts were bad people. 

It taught me that people that have terminal sexually transmitted illnesses, such as HIV or AIDS, are just as much in need of love and support as someone who has cancer, or other terminal illness. It taught me about the struggles that people in those situations face, and how communities cast them aside. THAT is shameful. 

More than anything else, it showed me that there is fluidity to sexuality, that queer folks are real folks are every day folks that walk among us whether we know it or not. 

I love that show so much. 

[rhinkipoo]

it's 9:18 pm. im thinking about how overwhelmed i am with school right now. and im nervous but hopeful about my girlfriend's grad school auditions. she's been rejected from 2 schools so far and im a little nervous about whats going to happen. but im about to eat a cinnamon roll so thats nice 💖

She’s going for her DMA, right? That’s tough. Especially on a popular instrument - that makes everything more competitive. If that doesn’t work out, she can still audition for professional orchestras, or teach (privately or through or school). 

CINNAMON ROLL! I WANT ONE!

Tell me what time it is where you are and what you’re thinking about?

[buddeysystem]

they might be giants

oh my god?    ?????????????????

First song youtube took me to: the mickey mouse clubhouse song i’m cryinggg

First Impression: tbh i at first thought they were Taco for the actual song it came on to but ??

Do I like it?: i feel like i could get into some of their stuff bc they kinda remind me of cake and i love cake. it reminds me of my dad  weirdly????

Would I listen to more from them?: i jam out to Hot Dog! all the time c’mon

Rate (from what I heard): 1 | 2 | 3 | 4 | 5 | 6 | 7 | 8 | 9 | 10

[rhink-ality]

Hey @ssodangdark I miss you and ILU 😤💖 hope you're doing ok!

[spockina]

ssodangdark replied to your post: tumblr really be quiet on a saturday night huh

dude honestly im TRYING to get SOMEWHAT drunk and be horny on main and NO ONE IS HERE. it’s snowing in like 2/3 of america right now, WHAT ARE ALL OF YOU PEOPLE DOING??? cuz i damn well know theyre not outside

RIGHT?????? my god i cant even blog because theres not enough people around to reblog stuff from!!!! the travesty!!!!! also it IS snowing so much and also so windyyyyyy grrrrrrrr

[ladycynthiana]

ssodangdark replied to your post “I’ve been asked to take down the AMA posts, so if anyone reblogged...”

who asked you to take it down???

Rhettandlink on Twitter  😫

[ridiculuce]

Thank you for tagging me in this, @linkslipssinkships, also @ssodangdark. Love you, baes.

Name: Victoria

Star Sign: Gemini

Gender: Female

Height: 5'3"

Sexuality: Bisexual

What image do you have as your wallpaper:

(My friends like to do weird things to our group photos but jokes on them because now this one is my wallpaper lol)

Where do you see yourself in 10 years: Hopefully in a committed relationship, maybe married, with at least one kid. I wont have to live paycheck to paycheck, and will live in a nice house with my dads drum set in one soundproof room.

What was your coolest Halloween costume:

I loved dressing up as a kid, and went as a witch one year. Wig and everything.

What's your favorite 90s show:

All That (I was in LOVE with Amanda Bynes)

Last kiss:

A couple of days ago. Had a guy come over because I needed company. It was fun.

Have you ever been stood up:

Yesss. I can probably count the times on one hand. I think the main one that stuck with me was the time my dad stood me up on my birthday in like 5th grade. I wrote a poem about it, and some bullies made fun of me because there was a rumor it was actually about a boy I had had a crush on. It wasnt.

Have you ever been to Las Vegas:

Nope. Would love to go though. Maybe with my bff.

Favorite pair of shoes:

Some white walmart sneakers (or, as I call them "tenny shoes") that got dirty in the rainy aftermath of the childish Gambino concert last year. I love them.

Favorite fruit:

Mangos! Or green seedless grapes.

Stupidest thing you've ever done:

Stayed in a really abusive relationship for like 3 years.

Favorite gif:

Favorite book:

There are many, as I've been a BIG fan of the more modern ones. But, I think this one takes the cake because I use it so damn often, no matter the context.

The Bell Jar, by Sylvia Plath. Also, soon to be Boys, by Jordan Waters

I tag @okayyasu because they always put up with my weird shit and I love them. Also @fancytunaprince because I miss you so much.