#stalker!ask

[toxicanonymity]

hii so im actually coming from tiktok via the reddit comment about everything going on. if you have proof of plagiarism and j talking shit why not post them? it is a bit suspicious that you haven’t

Hello! Just wondering - did you watch the tiktoks / see what was on the screenshots (i know they go by fast), or take someone's word for it? Are you aware this is all being pushed by a troubled individual who is trying to stir up two year old drama for their own purposes? Did you really see me accuse anyone of plagiarism? And why tf is something like this on fauxmoi???

Here you go.

And ty strange these are good points 🖤

EDIT - confirmed: the redditor is the same person as the tiktoker. first, in a reddit comment, the redditor who initially posted the "tea" thanked me for answering their ask (this one), even though the ask was acting like it found out about the drama from reddit. then, the tiktoker made a whole hate blog, @/whoretocultralists , and about a week later, the hate blog revealed its main blog was @/ichaborgasm, who has the same name as the redditor.

[toxicanonymity]

She's been proven a liar over and over again. Proven without a doubt she's the Redditor (after she accused you of being racist for assuming she was, hilarious) and now she's lying about deleting my anon from last night. But it's oh kae because her credibility's been shot, so let her talk, no one will believe her at this point ☺️

And if anyone does believe her, hopefully they block me because I dont want anyone that impressionable reading my fics. Everyone on my blog is supposed to be able to tell the difference between fiction and reality

[toxicanonymity]

I think you should talk to a lawyer, compile evidence with them, and have them help with talking to the cops.

cops are not to be trusted.... your stalker has been acting like she is above consequences which is what all cops and their friends do. I dont think its safe to just go to local police alone.

We are all on your side !!!

A lot of internet crimes count as federal offences if you are in the US. But idk... I want you to be safe and protected. Please seek out a lawyer.

Good call. I do have an attorney, and I'll see her socially in a few days anyway. Plus she already knows about my writing and community and all. The stalker and I are in different states, so I wonder if that could make it federal? Otherwise idk which state would even have jurisdiction. Anyway, ty non 🖤 sometimes the common sense things don't occur to me.

[toxicanonymity]

I'm also not a fan of the police(!!) but in this case I think they deserve to get caught and busted by the police. ☺️ With some big ass fine to pay too. Some people only learn it this way and I think this person will continue like that. If it's not with you then someone else

Hope this stops soon. Again, you do not deserve this! <3

I agree they deserve to get stopped. The police sucking isn't just a matter of principle here, unfortunately. Like it could go wrong. But anyway, my plans could change if it doesn't stop or escalates.

Ty again for your support 🖤🖤

p.s. If you wanna dispel any of my concerns about cops with your expertise, I'll hear your thoughts

What could go wrong w/ the cops?

nothing happens, and I've put myself at more risk for no reason. doxed in police report

she gets a warning, finds out from police who I am, gets even more unhinged, and I get hurt

cops think of me as the porn writer if i go to them in the future about a different crime

cop sees it as a cat fight, "you ladies work this out now..." (see above)

they call it he said/she said

cops assume I did something to provoke it

cops get physically involved and stalker gets hurt

cops gossip about a salacious porn stalker case, then i'm doxxed everywhere

NOT-hot, maga cop tries to blackmail me

after i get hurt, dateline brings shame to my family with The Slasher Smut Slasher (but a few of you get to meet keith morrison)

Some of these would be non-factors if it wasn't local police I guess. The longer this goes on, the more likely I am to get authorities involved.

[toxicanonymity]

I saw your poll. Bitch please go to the police. You don't deserve to handle all this shit in your free time. Let the police get them and scare the shit out of them. This isn't "just" a lil cyber bullying anymore. I'm tired of this all. These people always think they can get away with it. I went to the police and it helped but I'm from germany I'm not sure how they handle cyber stuff where you're from. I wish you the best!! :( <3

Going to the police would dox me to the stalker (there's a right to know who's accusing you). I'd have to decide if that's worth it, especially given that police suck. But at this point, I do know exactly who this person is, so if it comes to that, it's an option.

Ty for your support! 🖤

P.s. fun fact, after she showed her main blog, it took two minutes to confirm she IS the redditor. Of course. No one would see that tiktok account and repeat its exact talking points PLUS sympathize with a hate account for being talked about or called dangerous

[toxicanonymity]

I hope you understand what I mean with the following text cause my English is seriously not good lol.

Here you can do those things anonymously. But they needed my name for the file which stays only at the police and the person that gets reported won't know who it did. What I do if I have to do something so radical and feel anxious or insecure doing it which is mostly like that, I'm just calling them without saying my name first, just a friendly hello officer I have some questions. Then ask them "what happens or can happen to them and to me if I report this n that to the police. Can I do it in a way the person won't get informed WHO reported them. Is it possible to talk to a female officer if I make this all official and go into details." whatever is in your mind.

I didn't had a situation like you but I reported my ex for "only" logging into my accounts deleting contacts, messages and kinda mild online stalking and they where pretty serious about it they talked to him that if he won't stop worse things can happen if I keep reporting it he even had a lot of money to pay the state. And I also reported a woman that lives just next to my house anonymously because she abused and didn't took care of her three lil dogs. I did it the same way, I first asked all those questions that give me safety. All the what-ifs. It really helped and I do not regret a single thing about that.

But I now understand your worries, I live in Europe I can only tell you about the police here. But still I think calling them without your name first could be a chance if nothing helps.

Nonnie, your English is perfect! I'm glad the police were able to help you. What your ex was doing was a serious violation 🥺 Ty for explaining your approach, it makes sense! I'll see what the legal advice is and keep this in mind. 🖤

[toxicanonymity]

Let's not forget after i gave her links proving her identity to her main and her reddit account, she panicked and deleted it all 😭

And yet, apparently she's STILL going on about me. Nonstop. It's scarier that she recognized the risk but is too fixated on me to stop???

Anyone can now easily see she was lying about not being the redditor.

Edit: she didn't delete the posts that prove it, there are too many. she deleted the ask and one she'd answered before it.

stalker - backstory

[toxicanonymity]

They’re not very good at hiding who they are given the redditor’s user and the ichaborgasm person both use the name kae (#kaelalaland is frequently used on their tumblr blog)

Yep, and that's not all that connects her. Someone warned her in an ask, and she answered, "go on, post it," so answering this ask seems like fair play 🤷‍♂️

ref - she revealed her main blog

^on the rb scroll down to see for yourself

stalker - backstory

So yeah, the same person is behind the tiktok hate account, reddit gossip thread, tumblr hate blog, and a variety of anons sent to me and the fandom hate blog.

It's always been pretty obvious the tiktoker was the redditor - realistically, no one would see a brand new tiktok account trying to revive debunked accusations about 2023 fandom drama with no proof, run to r/fauxmoi with it as "tea," repeat the tiktoker's exact talking points, plus sympathize with the tiktoker (a hate account) for being talked about (by its target!) and being called dangerous. despite all this, she said it was racist to conclude she was the tiktoker. in fact, this was the #1 point in her racism manifesto.