#stem4stud

[eajan]

So, if you've been single for a while, did you ALSO forget how to kiss or is that shit just muscle memory for you?

[feelinwomanish]

4 the No Labels / Stems who like Studs / Mascs

I could be wrong, but I feel like being a Black "no label" / stem lesbian who likes stud/masc lesbians is a struggle in and of itself. I flow from one end of the spectrum to the other, and I find that my past gfs only wanted "the femme side" (appearance) of me - even though I made that clear up front.

Feels like there is an added pressure for Black lesbians to "pick a side" (femme or masc) and by not doing that I'm rendered somewhat invisible / illegible. Like if ppl can't hyper masculinize or hyper feminize me, they don't fuck wit me?

Even had one talk about feeling emasculated... Like how does a woman even emasculate another...? smh

But seriously, where's the Stud4Stem / Stud4NoLabel love?