Dec 8, 2025
Sometimes I see a cute girl and think “aaa I’m so gay” but then I remember I’m a guy and that’s straight. Having all of my Discord friends be lesbian trans women can kinda confuse me lol
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Sometimes I see a cute girl and think “aaa I’m so gay” but then I remember I’m a guy and that’s straight. Having all of my Discord friends be lesbian trans women can kinda confuse me lol
I don’t really know what a paraphile is but I don’t really care what people are into in their heads. I care about what they do. I have seen furries go “mmmm paws” but I know they don’t touch animals inappropriately and that it’s typically a homophobic attack to say furries approve of animal abuse. So like??? I don’t care what you’re into? It literally doesn’t matter?
I wonder if drinkable estrogen exists.
It doesn’t cost me, a cis straight guy, anything to reblog gay guy positivity or trans girl positivity. If folks think I’m gay, whatever, I’m ace. If folks think I’m trans, whatever, I know what I am
Trans men have problems that trans women don’t have. For instance, trans men can be forcibly impregnated. I think it’s reasonable to call that a transandrophobic sexual assault.
I have been thinking: I think I want to use “she/her” pronouns.
This isn’t about being a step towards being transfem. Still think being a girl is unappealing.
This is about “folks use she/her for ships and stuff” and “I wanna be a badass mecha” and “it doesn’t matter if a ship is named after a man, folks still she/her the ship”
So yeah. You can she/her me but only if you understand how I mean it. Otherwise he/him only.
“Is this a problem or am I just annoyed/uncomfortable/not the target audience? And if this is a problem, should I prioritize it or should I prioritize other problems?”
This is my general heuristic whenever I’m on social media.
I think that “call out bigotry in fandom” is fine but it feels like a bandaid on the gaping wound. Fandom isn’t bigoted because fandom is bigoted. Fandom is bigoted because fandom is made out of members of society. If we want fandom to stop being bigoted then we need society to stop being bigoted.
Reading comprehension questions.
1) did I say “don’t call out bigotry in fandom”?
2) did I say “fandom bigotry is fine, actually, because it’s just society”?