So there are folk that really want to be upset with dude's ex and blame her for him killing someone? Women can't catch a break. They are victims of violence at the hands of men, and now we see the blame for the violence of men against others being placed upon them too. How about addressing the issue(s) of the men out there with the fragile egos coupled with a fucked up/warped concept of masculinity that is so toxic that it has left many of us an emotional and/or psychological mess ready to explode at any time? Ask some of the women around you have they ever feared for their safety when trying to politely decline a man's advances... especially a group of them. I assure you that more than half of them will say they have experienced it. There are some women out there now in a relationship solely because they are afraid of what may happen if they were to try and leave. Come on society, brothers, etc.... we gotta do better. Recognize that our women are suffering. The same women you see out there on the front lines for us every day.